Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now.
HollyAnn2282 answered Thursday June 24 2004, 9:33 pm: Well dont rush into relationships and dont have relationships just to have a "boyfriend" stay single your YOUNG! You only live once wait awhile for boys... You'll meet them later on just enjoy being young, your only young once!
-Holly-
Hope I helped [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
ciara answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 7:10 pm: tell your friend to stay single because then you can hang out w/ as many cute guys as she wants to!!!!! [ ciara's advice column | Ask ciara A Question ]
Eclipse013 answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 1:18 pm: i think it's really up to her and the guy. she went out with someone in 1st grade though? maybe she should stay single for a while until a guy she really likes comes along. let him ask her out though, not the other way around. [ Eclipse013's advice column | Ask Eclipse013 A Question ]
Lanabeanz answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 12:14 pm: well tell her that even though she is in high School now....that there is know reason that she cant start to date again....and she just needs to find the right person and just start goin out with him to start another relationship. [ Lanabeanz's advice column | Ask Lanabeanz A Question ]
Mizz_Chupaz answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 11:33 am: it really depends if she is into a guy for a relationship or not. it's not choosing to be single or taken. if shes not willing to work towards a relationship then she should stay single. [ Mizz_Chupaz's advice column | Ask Mizz_Chupaz A Question ]
xXBrunetteBabiiXx answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 2:04 am: well if she wants to be single then she should stay single, but if she finds a guy that she really likes then she could start dating...but she shouldnt be in a hurry to start dating...she has a lot of time ahead of her [ xXBrunetteBabiiXx's advice column | Ask xXBrunetteBabiiXx A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 12:40 am: its not if she should stay single, its mroe if she finds someone she wants a relationship with, then go for it!! but if she feels more comfortable flirtin n lookin around thats fine too!! [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
LykViolencUhavMe answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 12:30 am: uh yeah... i maan if she likes someone she should so go for it. i mean if she doesnt then no she doesnt have to go looking for soemone but she shouldnt not date anyone just to not date anyone theres no point in that. dating is fun lol [ LykViolencUhavMe's advice column | Ask LykViolencUhavMe A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 12:29 am: Well, first of all I'm not quite sure you can call it DATING if you are only in kindergarten-1st grade and 4th to 5th. Where would they have gone on a date? To Mcdonalds accompanied by their mom who drives a minivan? But, I'm sure your friend had a crush on these boys and liked them. Junior high is a great time to start getting more comfrotable with hanging out with guys. I would suggest your friend hang out with guys and other girls in groups. Like go to the movies with like 5-10 people. And if she likes a boy well, she can be with them. But 7th grade is really too earlier to call it serious dating. :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
tommiegurlie23 answered Wednesday June 23 2004, 12:19 am: i think she will know when its right to date again! Like when you find a guy you want to go out with you know! Everything happens for a reason!~! so tell her to just keep her eyes open for mr. right!!! xoxo! [ tommiegurlie23's advice column | Ask tommiegurlie23 A Question ]
failure_by_design answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 11:35 pm: Hey Soulsista-- well for starters personally i don't think elementary school *dating* really counts as a relationship or dating. because you really don't know what it means to date or be a boyfriend/girlfriend. She should stay single for now, since she is just starting junior high, and if she meets a boy that interests you take it slow. First, she should talk to him like a regular guy friend. then start flirting a lil bit each day, {don't flirt a lot in the beginning, that could be a turn-down}. I hope everything i helped out your friend! if you have any other questions feel free to ask me!
MFS answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 11:23 pm: a "date" in K-1, and 4-5 hardly counts in the grand scheme of dating...
I would recommend staying single. Why bother with all the crap surrounding strange junior high relationships and politics? [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
pinkchicky20 answered Tuesday June 22 2004, 11:23 pm: entering middle school i would stay single at first and make sure you get to know people first. its a big change from elementary school. just wait a little while until you find someone you really like! dont rush into dating...you have your whole life so while your young just have fun! [ pinkchicky20's advice column | Ask pinkchicky20 A Question ]
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