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My and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 15 months and we have come close to have sex sooo many times... the only thing stopping us is that he doesnt have condoms. We both know that if he did, that we would probably end up doing something if we had the chance, but we are also both worried about pregnancy! Thats why we are hesitant about buying condoms.
I am 16 and he is 17.
What should i do? (link)
wait!! sex can wait!!

^ listen to me!!


Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
If she finds some one She loves.. then she should date

If she doesn't love any one maybe she should date ppl to find the right guy!!

^ good Luck Soul Sista


ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut? (link)
Well.. You should only do stuff with guys that u love.. i guess if u love these guys like truly then ur not a slut.. but if it is for fun..stick to one guy..one guy u actually love
^ Good Luck!!


well everyday or so i go to my bestfriends house an theres always her guy neighbors over therre an there is this one that i really like! his name is jay an hes just a year older than me an he is always grabbin on my ass an saying funny stuff to me... like to day he wuz like "miss do u know were anyone can gimmi a lap dance?? do u by any chance?" i think he was kidding but like ive only known him for like a month or so an i REALLY REALLY like him an all my other friends ask like "do you like michelle" an he "smiles" den my friends ask like "would u go out with michelle?" an jay goes "only if she would go out with me" I DUNNO IF I LIKE HIM OR IF I SHOULD MAKE A MOVE OR WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN I REALLY NEED HELP IM REALLY CONFUSED!! plz answer asap i gota go soon an im going to my friends (yes that friend) house tommorrow!!! xoo michelle
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Ask Him Out!!, Make A move..!! This guy totally likes you!!
^ Good Luck!!


I have been feeling so horney latly and i cant go out and buy sex toys because i will get caght and my mom will freak out and i can ehave sex because im to young what do i do i ddont know how to finger or mastrabate or anything! (link)
Your feeling Horney? Hmm.... Get that off yer mind.. u are to young!! sex CAN wait!!Think about something else, do a sport or something. And remember, Sex CAN wait!

Hope I Helped You!


me and my mates are always fallen out. has any 1 got ne tips on how we can make our friendship work thanx (link)
Maybe you could do more stuff together! Have a sleep over once a week.. Start your own little club! Do something so that yer friendship doesn't become boring!

GOOD LUCK!!


I am 5'6 n i weigh 130 pds! er i want to be the "perfect" 100 by the summer days so i look cute in my bathing suit! All my friends wear 1's n im in 2/3's ya so what should i do to get to the perfect 100 HELP ME!! I want to look cute in a bathing suit!!!
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You are your own person. If God wanted us all to look the same we would all have the perfect body and big ! But he likes us to be different!
^ think about that!


You could start to run.. do a sport i play basketball and volleyball and i am in pretty good shape! I am not saying that this will make u skinny i a few days or skinny at all It might take a year! But it will help!
Hope You Acheive!


So, yeah. I don't think I have ever felt so strongly for someone in my life...ever. I think I am experiencing love as much as I can at such a young age or, at least, something very close.

Various people (not me) have discussed this (he knows I am at least somewhat attracted) with him and appears to have no interest back.

What should I do? (link)
Just wait. Love is EVERY where! Just wait for your guy to find it. Guys are slow and dumb! haha. But we still love them, even when they think we don't.. we do! So just wait! It's all you can do! He'll find you.. and when he does he'll expierence love!




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