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Well, im a 19 year old student and photographer. I live in Oregon. I really like giving advice- I like helping people-...plus i'm a bit opinionated. But thats the sign of strong woman! Don't hesisate to ask me question about anything, i'll try my best to answer them to the best of my knowlegde and if I can't, i'll give you the name of a columnist who can.
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Just wondering...how old is everyone that is on here? (link)
I just turned 19 this year. But the age range is huge.


after i shave my mid-section there is ALWAYS STUBBLE and red dots.. i do the everyother day scrub but it DOESNT help! please please please give me some tips..
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Why on earth are shaving you mid-section? Theres no need to shave those tiny hairs off- you can barely see them. My guess would be to use chalomine lotion on the stubble- and aleo vera.
And you might want to try some Nair.


hi has ne 1 ne ideas how to put on a little weight. ppl say eat more but i eat like a horse can sum1 help me (link)
It's not a good idea to just starte eating whatever is in sight. Start by eating things with more carbs and protein. Eat lots of fruit because it has natural sugar.


Marijuana is obviously one of the most popular illigal drugs. but is it really a bad thing? I have personal experiences and well to tell truth, it doesnt really hinder your judgement, nor does it make you feel invincible. All marijuana does is make you really goofy. Ppl say that car accidents happen alot due to marijuana. what these ppl over look is that those kids that are in the accidents are also drunk. which is what really hinders and clouds your judgement.
Is there actually any REAL physical harm that will come from marijuana, aside from the obvious? (link)
There is a lot of controversy on wether marijuana is dangerous or not. In my experience, it's not that big a deal. But it's VERY important to remember that MODERATION is the key. Once a month or two is perfectly fine. It's effects aren't lasting. But anything you inhale into your lungs is hazardous so use it sparingly. People who are high and drive are irresponsible in the first place. I don't encourage someone to drive when high because your giggly and lazy. But it's nearly like being drunk. It's rumored that the government confiscated and changed documents pertaining to the effects of marijuana and covered it up, so you have to go by persoanl experience. Just don't be stupid and get carried away.


this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap? (link)
Because TV tells them too. It's bizarre but it's actually just that simple. Many younger teens today havn't been exposed to actually decent music. So if Simple Plan is the best they've ever experienced- then their going to idolize it.
Carry around a mix CD with some Incubus, Maynard and Gypsy Kings on it- and the next time you see a little agsty teen reching for some Good Charlotte, hand it to them and say, "You'll thank me later."


I am 5'6 n i weigh 130 pds! er i want to be the "perfect" 100 by the summer days so i look cute in my bathing suit! All my friends wear 1's n im in 2/3's ya so what should i do to get to the perfect 100 HELP ME!! I want to look cute in a bathing suit!!!
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From what you've told me it sounds like you have a serious image problem. Being 5'6 and 100 pounds is VERY unhealthy. You should be 100 pounds if your about 4'8. 130 sounds just right. If not a bit underweight.


Well... im 130 n im 13 yrs old n im 5'5/5'6 n i want to loose some weight... Im a very sporty girl like everyday i run n do basketball n situps n pushups n w/e else u can think of... My favorite food is salad... thats like all i eat n I want to loose at least 30 pds to be the little 100 pd girl... n i have 3 weeks til summer n i want to be able to wear a bakini n look cute in it.. not fat... im trying to loose my tummy because it bugs me... HELP!!!! (link)
Don't be rediculous- You're two inches taller than I am and ten pounds lighter and I look fine in a bathing suit. BUT I understand where your coming from- my stomach is my most dissapointing feature too. Honestly- try doing some crunches in the morning and before you go to bed if it bothers you that much. But I think your image of yourself might be askew because all of oyur friends are so tiny.


well you see, i really want to go to middle school, like BAD! But i have maybe a 89% to go to this acting school, and i ,may even be in a show! what should i do? i will like to go to school with my friends, but this is a one in a lifetime chance!

Signed,
Confused Actress (link)
Sweetie, if you have an 89% chance- there WILL be other times. If you've got it, you'll keep it. Go be a kid now, hang out with your friends, be silly and have fun. Actors always say the thing they feel they missed out on most by being and actor is have a childhood. You'll thank yourself later.


Are you a virgin??? (link)
No- and it's not important either. A woman's sexuality is her own choice. Granted she's of an appropriate age, ofcourse. And it should be expressed- but not abused. It really gets to me that a girl is prized for her virginity- and a boy is mocked for it. If a girl has a sexual experience- she's a slut. If I guy does, he's congradulated. It's STUPID.


ok what is the in color for hair? blonde or brown ? i am a blonde right now but it is a died blonde some ppl like it and some dont i think i look a little better as a blonde but i dont know cuz i did have brown hair with blonde highlights but i have blue eyes and i think the blonde brings them out more but i just want to know what is the in color for hair? (link)
Heres a better question: why the HELL do you care??? I totally understand wanting to look your best- but not for other people. The truth of the matter is that if you like it, and your confident about it- people are going to like it more. Your appearance will improve by simply having self esteem. If you go around searching for other people's opinion about whats "in" people will pity you instead of enjoying your hair color.

If you like it blonde. Keep it blonde. If you like it purple- change it to purple. Green, blue, brown, red, peach ect ect. If you like it- others will. Period.




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