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does it HURT alot the first time u have sex?
im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel???
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It depends on lots of things. It depends on the size of the guys penis, how he works it (make sure he goes super slow) and how wet the female gets. I recommend a lot of foreplay before. For me, it hurt A LOTTT, not only the first time, but every time for about 2 weeks. My ex-boyfriend was well-endowed, so that's probably why it hurt so much for me. But, consider waiting a little longer. Do not do it if you are unsure because it will just haunt you for the rest of your life. I lost my virginity at age 16 and that's my biggest regret. I wish I should have waited because now I have been with the same guy for 3 years now and wish I could have saved it for us. Please think it through and don't let any man pressure you, ever. Hope this helps.
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It hurt at first, and then it was more like uncomfortable. You're gonna be nervous your first time, so it's not gonna be the best experience.
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it doesnt hurt but your not totaly relaxed the 1st time so it probley wont feel good
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For me it hurt for a second, and I mean hurt level of about 5 out of 10, more discomfort than pain. But for my best friend it hurt so bad she had to stop. Shes smaller than me though, prob 5'3" 105lbs and I'm 5'8" at 117lbs. Depends on the size of you.
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Hi there!
It didn't hurt me and I know it also didn't hurt a lot of my friends...it feels a little bit uncomfortable at first but then you get used to it in a few minutes and it feels great :) However, it does differ for every girl since everyone is different, so you'll just have to find out when you do...hope I helped!
-Jess
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if you don't already, finger yourself. it will loosen you up a bit downstairs, making for a less painful experience.
if you're too stuck up to finger yourself, have your boyfriend do it for you, if you have one.
personally, my first time was only a little bit of a sting, but i have heard girls complain of worse. they may have just been typical whiny girls, though. then there's always the three-finger method. if you feel like you're dying, it's probably going to hurt a great deal. just make sure there is plenty of foreplay the first time, so that you're exceptionally wet. the added lubrication will make the entire process smoother, leaving less room for pain. the fact that the victim is generally dry is a large part of what can make rape so painful.
also, your first time, if you are very nervous, you may want to try being on top. in this way, you have more control over the level of penetration, and can decide what feels best for you. don't worry about his level of pleasure; if it's his first time, he'll probably like whatever you do. ;)
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it hurts real bad and you will prob bleed alot after your cherry is popped!!!its ok everyone has to go through it...well the girls so have sex have fun and have safe sex!!!
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No, it feels like heaven likes you.
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it feels very very uncomfortable the first couple times you have sex. the first time is very painful. i bled alot. its not easy to enjoy it until after like 4 or 5 times. dont be afraid to do it though.
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Yea it will hurt the 1st time it always does....it feels painful but great
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It hurts at first...but then it starts to feel good. Your first couple of times it does hurt
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ok im 14 n i know its kinda wrong but ok the first time it hurts not extremely bad but it does... n then u bleed afterwards!!! it really sux (that the only part) but then once ur first is done n u do it again it feels goo a lil painful but nothing much...its great
hoped i helped ANABEL
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It really depends on the size. If your guy's big, it's probably gonna hurt a lot. I had that problem. Not fun. But when it stops hurting (for me, it was after the second and a half time. Lol. Hurt a bit in the beginning of the third) it feels good. It's hard to describe, really. Hope this helped!
-Siren
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no not for most people and its supposed to be a special feeling so share it with some one u care about not just some random guy at a party good luck and use a condom
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well as starnge as this may sound, it also depends on how large ur male counterpart is. as a virgin ur vagina is tighter than its ever gonna be. but every one is different. it shouldnt hurt too bad. if the guy is longer than 8 inch then yes it will start to hurt, but shorter it will be more pleasurable then it will hurt.
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for some people yeah it hurts quite a bit because when u "pop ur cherry" ur actually ripping thro a piece of tissue or skin. so yes it will hurt as much as tearing ur skin would and will also bleed a bit.
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