i've bene really close to having sex with my boyfriend but we havent.. i heard that if u wear tampons it doesnt hurt too much. well. i'm still a virgin. of course but how is it and how does it feel? will it hurt really bad?
smileyhunz answered Monday June 21 2004, 11:17 pm: ok this might sound bad but im 14 n i lost mine in february with the wrong guy by the way! :( but ok the first time it hurts not like "ima die" pain but it just hurts! umm i did use tampons b4 but it still hurt. actually after u lose it n ur done u star bleeding from down there like if u got ur period or sumthing. to tell u the truth the pain on the first isnt horrible but the second time boy its good...
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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday June 20 2004, 4:42 am: Well, using tampons does help stretch you out a little bit. But just not during sex...Lol.
I didn't start using tampons until after the first time, so I don't really know what effect it has.
Well, it hurt a LOT for me my first time. The main problem was that - er, he's big. I'm kinda not. That's a BAD mix. Lol. But once it stops hurting, it feels pretty good. You have to be really comfortable with your guy, though, or it'll be really awkward.
My advice: Firstly, don't let him push you into anything you're not ready for. If you're ready, and it feels right, go for it, but make sure he has a condom on...Lol. Tell him to be gentle. Try to stay relaxed if it hurts. It lessens the pain a little. That was the best advice my friend gave me. It helped a bit.
Good luck!
-Siren [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Kissxme1121 answered Sunday June 20 2004, 2:44 am: No don't wear a tampon during sex; then it will get pushed up into you and you'll have to go to a doctor and have him get it up, and thats not fun. For most people it does hurt but it feels different for all ppl! [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
MFS answered Saturday June 19 2004, 10:07 pm: If you wear a tampon during sex, you can very well end up with it shoved so far up in you that you cannot get it out without assistance from someone with a pair of tweezers. I am not kidding. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
Short_N_Punky answered Saturday June 19 2004, 10:04 pm: Ok iv only had sex once but if you have never had sex before it will hurt. But its a good kind of hurt because you like it but you feel like you want to cry. But yes it will hurt a little bit and as for the tampon thing i mnot sure on that one but iv herd that to. But im not sure because i dont wear them but my friend does and she said it hurt her when she first had sex. So im guessing it still does but i advice you not to have sex till your ready!. I hope iv helped you in any way. But dont let any one pressure you into it. Need any more help dont be afraid to wright back.
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