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i was just wondering if when a guy fingers you is it supposed to hurt??? because my b/f has done it to me a couple times and it hurt. is it supposed to or was i not doing something rite like not spreading my legs out far enough or something?
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Is this your first couple of times getting fingered? If so, it's going to hurt the first couple of times. If it hurts too much, just tell your boyfriend to slow down and take it easy on you. It might be hurting a lot if you're too tense, try to relax a little. If you do your muscles will relax and it won't hurt so much. Also, spreading your legs a lot will reduce the pain.
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it can hurt but after a couple of times it shouldn't. you need to spread your legs more to relax your muscles. and try and relax cuz the mucsels in your vagina can tense as well making it hurt.
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it depends on how hard he's fingering you.
if it hurts everytime he's fingered you, then something must be wrong.
maybe his nails are too long, or he's being too rough on you, or you could just be too tight & he's using too many fingers.
try asking him to go easier, and use one finger. & if the pain is still there, then maybe you might want to see a doctor.
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It's not supposed to hurt, if he's hurting you tell him to slow down/stop pushing hard/ just stop compleatly. Let him know how you want it. He's not gonna get his feelings hurt if you tell him the truth, he doesn't want to hurt you. Spreading your legs will help, but it's just how you feel comfordable. It could be that it's something you're not used to since he's only done it a few times.
[♥]Callie[♥]
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I finger my girlfriend too and she told me it hurts when i go too fast so maybe you should keep this in mind... Make sure he starts off slow and keeps going at a slow pace. If you can handle that then tell him to go faster. Also, I believe it hurts less and feels better if your legs are spread more because the closer together your legs are, the more it hurts... I have experience from my girlfriend, she likes it better when her legs are more spread... I hope this helps you.
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It's not supposed to hurt you but if you've never done it or if someone has never done it to you before, it's normal for the first couple of times. Other than that, you should feel pleasure.
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i know tis sounds wierd but finger yourself and see if it hurts this should give you an ideaof how it should or shouldnt feel. expeirment on yourself ways to make it feel better and try them with him
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