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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx
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Well, that's completely and totally up to you. It's obvious that you're smart -- you see all the possible situations and the risks involved with going to this party. Why don't you make it clear to this guy that he shouldn't expect anything from you? Tell him that you're just not that type of girl, and make sure he knows it by your actions, not just the way you talk. Take a look at what may be making guys expect things like that from you. Maybe you need to make a (very minor) change in your behavior? But that's your own business. My advice is, to make sure that this guy knows exactly what to expect from you -- and what not to expect. If you feel uncomfortable with anything he does, remove yourself from the situation (sometimes your safety may be at stake).
If you decide to go, have fun. But don't do anything that may impair your judgement (like drugs or drinking). First of all, it's illegal. Secondly, and even more importantly, you may end up doing something you'll regret for the rest of your life.
<3 Holly
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PRobably not. They most likely WILL be expecting foR it, and they will definitely tRy to get it. If you know you don't want to paRticipate in these kinds of encounteRs, I suggest using some good judgement and don't botheR to even place youRself in such a situation. Goodluck deciding. Hope I helped! =D
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no. if there's going to be peer pressure there then don't do it. bc you may end up giving in to it and then regret it the next day. plus you're younger then these guys and you dont know what they're planning on doing to you.
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you should go to the party with friends, to make you more comfortable in the situation. if the guys at the party or doing things or saying things thats making you uncomfortable then you should leave.
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well before you go anywhere with any guy u need to make sure you know them pretty well. also if you do then you need to tell him that he cant expect you to do things with him and if you dont feel comfortable saying that to him then maybe you shouldnt be going to this party with him. also if you do decide to go and you feel even a little uncomfortable then you should have a good and loyal friend with you and make sure you tell her to not to leave you alone with him.
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chances are, there are gonna be seniors pressuring it from you. especially if they are all over you. And theres probably gonna be a lot of bad stuff going on there, who knos what could happen. Im just saying, if you dont want to give anybody more than a hj, then you might not want to go. Just tell them youd love to go but you`re going to blahblahblah...
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Go and have fun. But, if a guy just wants you for sex, handjobs and blowjobs, tell him to get another girl, cause you wont be his "play toy".
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Absolutely. I'd go.
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If you dont feel comfortable about there being sex and drugs ,dont go.If you do bring more then one friend that way if you get into a bad situation there'll be people on your side there.
hope i helped.
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it depends on what u think would happen there....alot of senior guys only want freshman girls for sex. if you really wanan go take a reliable friend.If the guys keep askin u to go upstairs dont go and leave. Jus watch whatcha do.. u could get a bad rep n ur only a freshman.
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I would go and if they keep askin u to go upstairs and stuff then say no, if they keep doin u could leave. U could have something else to do.
Hope i helped
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when a senoir guy goes after a freshman girl, they're only looking for some fresh meat. by that way you have explained the situation, it seems that you already know that you dont wanna go. why waste your time if your gonna go to this party and not do anything. and if you get drunk or high then you may do something that you'll regret. and one of the last things you want is to get a bad rep.
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When a senior guy is going for a freshmen then its obvious that he is after one thing and thats sex. And if you know there is going to be drugs and sex there why go? You could get drunk and have sex without even knowing. Just watch what you do because you could get a bad rep.
xoxo chels
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Keep it clean, your new in highschool. You could possiably get a bad rep...just watch what you do, and where your at. You don't want to get caught ether...
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Honestly there's a big difference between Freshmen and Seniors.Not to be rude but usually,when a Senior is after a Freshman girl,it's for one real reason!You're probably a very pretty girl,and so the guys take notice of you pretty quick! ;) It sounds to me from the way you talk that you're already uncomfrotable with the idea of this party,so even if you went you wouldn't have any fun.And what good's a party if you aren't enjoying it??My advice,tell him thanks but no thanks.
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If you want to yea. Just because there's going to be sex there, doesn't mean you have to be involved in it. Don't do anything you don't want to, it's that simple!! Have fun if you go =D
-xXoBrianna
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Alright well not to sound mean because i bet that you are a great girl but at my school its the same way all the older guys go for the younger girls... Not always for the best reasons. Its usually because They are looking to get some and freshman girls usually give it up because they are so facinated by this older guy being attracted to them. Now dont get me wrong he could really be attracted to you but just be careful and if you go to this party set limits for yourself ahead of time and really stick to them. Watch out for yourself you dont want to get hurt.
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go if you know yourself enough not to do anything youd regret doing. you can have fun, drink a lil, smoke a lil, just dont do anything that involves sex. butttt, then again, if you know your body well enough that if you drink and what not, that you end up gettin too pissy, then dont go. because some guys like to take advantage of girls when they are drunk or high and stuff and sometimes when you arent sober, you give in to things when usually you wouldnt.. and when you arent sober, you may be too weak to fight people off. but hey.. you can always go just to socialize and to watch other people get all fucked up. its fun just observing
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If you think you can go to the party and not be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do, then you should go. But if you don't know if you can handle the pressure, then you shouldn't go. If you stand your ground now, then they will all know that you're not easy.
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definitely...it'd be so much fun
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Senior boys usually only like freshman girls because they are "fresh meat". I am sure these guys are only wanting to use you..so its up to you whether you want to be used or not.
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