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I am a 15 year old girl who is confused because my best friend today asked me if I would be mad if she went out with my x boyfriend i went out with all year. I'm not all that sure if I am over him completely i think i tiny part of me has feeling for him again not sure. I told my friend that would be really happy if she went out with him but yet im not. Can u give me some advice what to do?
sincerely,
BabieGurl33
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You shouldnt have told her that if it wasnt true. She was nice enough to come and PERSONALLY ask you. That's a really good friend. If you don't feel comfortable with her dating your x then tell her, but if you do feel comfortable tell her. good luck..and pleasE rate mE!!
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You should definitely tell your friend how you feel..Its important that youre happy too because your her friend. If she says ok and understands, youll know shes really your friend but if she still wants to go out with him,knowing how you feel, she might not be the best friend you thought she was..
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if i were u .. i would jst tell ur friend that u still have feelings for the person and it would bother u if them 2 went out .. but then again its her decision and if she decides to go out w. him .. i might question ur friendship
hope i helped
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You should tell you're friend you are not fully over you're x-boyfriend and you would feel better if she laid off of him until you are over him to go out with him <3 hope i helped
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I think that you should tell her that you do still have feelings for him bcuz shes obvioulsy going to go out with him nd then you will be mad at her whether you want to admit it or not. Anyways since you alreadi lied to her its not exactly her fault because she doesnt kno.
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You should tell your friend how you really feel and that you think you still have tiny feelings for him. If she understands she would wait for you to feel comfortable and then maybe talk to your ex and see if u even have any feelings at all
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you sould tell your friend the turth about how you feel about this guy. cuz if you dont it will only cause problems for you and your friend ,and you and this guy.and the whole thing will be totally unneeded.
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whoa whoa whoa...tell ur friend to calm down!! she should understand if you still have feelings for someone you went out with all year..tell her that it would bother you if they were more than just friends and if she doesnt understand, shes not a true friend. theres plenty of other fish in the sea for her, she doesnt need to take a sloopy 2nd of her bestfriends!
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Okay...well if its ur ex n u still have feelings for him i can understand how u feel bcuz she is ur best friend but she cant help how she feels nd either can ur ex. if u dont rly care for the guy com on girl move on so wat if she goes out wit him im sure there r plenty other guys who wud wanna go out wit u...or jus talk 2 her tell her how you feel im sure she will undastand Hope I Helped!
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Don't lie about being ok with her going out with him if your not. It will only cause problems for you, and them. Just tell her the truth about the situation.
It's always better to tell the truth in every situation.
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um.. dude. i thynk u shuud go bak and tell ur friend u styll dig tha guy.. cuz lyk.. that happens all tha tyme.. and then u git hurt cuz they hook up.. and then they git hurt cuz they find out u styll lyk him while she is already goin out with him.. so.. yea.. to save allll that drama.. then just tell her now.. and lyk.. just be lyk.. " i kno i said i wouldn mynd.. but.. i thynk i miite styll have feelings for him.. im so0rry.. " l0l.. or sumthyn lyk that.. and if shes really ur friend.. she will be upset.. but wont git mad and start bein all mean or wutevr.. l0l.. wo0o0ow... that was long.. l0l.. yeeaa..
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well as a best friend she should respect how you feel about her dating your x. thats a touchy thing for any girl to see happen. and if you really wouldnt want her going out with him then just tell her that. and if there is a part of you that is still attached to him then maybe just re-consider why yall broke up and realize that you guys just arent right for each other. And if he was the one who hurt you..i would tell your best friend that you wouldnt want the same thign happening to her!!! she will understand!
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tell ur friend how u really feel
tell her that ur not totally over him, and that either she could wait a while, or not really talk about him in front of u, if she's a tru friend, then she'll understand how u feel :)
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