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my sister
my sister has been going out with this guy mike for longer thn a year and my whole family has loved him like a son/brother ect. but my stupid sister broke up with him for this druggie that our whole family despises. I know mike still loves her. I really don't want this Chris guy over at my house everyday. i was happy with mike. what should i do? i'll rate 5's for anyone who doesn't say it's your sisters life and let her do whatever she wants cuz i kno this guy is so wrong for her or anybody else. please help.
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Well, there's something wrong if she broke up with a decent guy for some druggie! I'd say that you should tell her (in a nice way) that you think she could do better than her new boyfriend.
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I think you should try to calmly talk to your sister. Just bring it up casually about Mike. Just mention how nice he is and about anything nice he used to do and hopefully that will get her thinking about that fact that she might have been better off with him. Keep doing it casually overtime but don't overwhelm her with hit.Maybe she is just going through a faze with this other guy..hopefully...
Good luck
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talk to here tell her that no one could love her as much as mike does and he is the best choice for her tell her shes making a stupid mistake and your rebellious feelings right now could lead her into deep trouble which you dont want her to get into just explain how you feel about the whole situation
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In this situation i would definently talk to my sister. I mean if the whole family knows this mike guy really well and treats him like family, why would you break up with him? and start going out with a different kid right away. I would really talk to your sister though, cause maybe you can convince her about like how happy you were when she was with mike instead of this chris guy. And maybe tell her how the family loved mike and how she did too at that one point. Good Luck!!
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You should tell her what you feel and make sure that she listens.
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Sit your sister and your family down and talk to her about the 2 guys and let her know that she's not doing the best thing for herself.
hope this helps
<3 Gabby
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well, ok, i understand that your upset about your sisters opinion on this drugy. i think you should sit your sister down and tell her that your afriad for her and want her to be careful. tell her you dont feel confertable being about that guy. tell her that you think she made a bad mistake for breaking up with mike.make sure you tell her that you dont want her to take it the wrong way or anything.
hope i helped,
cookierat123
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Ok! I SOO can relate! My sister Amy went out with this guy Brad for like 4 years & she broke up with him for this grungy alcoholic, Jeff. Jeff was really sweet & all but I totally loved Brad & so did my parents. So one day I asked Amy why she broke up with Brad & she's like, "Stephanie, he would beat me." And I liked FLIPPED OUT cause Brad just didnt look like that type of person. So just talk to your sister about it.
Kisses, Stephanie
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I dated this guy in high school for about 2 years. My family really started to not like him after a while and my friends didn't like him from the beginning. My mom and my dad would constantly have conversations with me about it saying how they didn't think he was right for me and he's doing this and that wrong. My friends would point out little things as well. I have to say that it was one of the most stressful periods of my life. It was constantly uncomfortable around my family and him because neither one liked the other which put me in a very difficult position. I suggest that you and your family sit your sister down and calmly have a discussion with her about how you all feel. Make sure you inform her that you understand it's her life and she has the right to date who she wants, but she needs to know that you and your family are not fully supportive. It will be a very difficult conversation to have, I promise you that. After she goes through enough time with her family not behind her the stress will be to much to bare and she will let one or the other go. Yes I said one or the other, bringing me to my next point. Although you don't support her in this, you still need to let her know that you all lover her and care about her so she doesn't feel abandoned. It worked on me so I hope it works on her. I hope this takes you where you want to go!
~Devan~
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i kno what your goin through my brother did the same thing he dated this girl who was mad nice and i loved her and so did my family then he dumped her for some skank but just tell her that you dont think this guy is that great and tell her what you and the rest of the family think of him and secretley try o get her and him back together hope i helped
Tayla` =)
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you should let your sister know that the guy is wrong for her, & tell her that your just lookin out for her cos you don't want her hurt, let her know that mike really loves her and cares for her .. but you also needa let her know w/e choice she makes your behind her fully otherwise she might not be able to turn to you for help when she needs it .. hope that helps a lil
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Just tell your sister what you think about the new guy. Once you tell her your opinion she could consider it. If she doesn't consider it thats her own fault. Atleast you know you tried! Good luck!
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Well, besides the fact that it is ultimately her decision, you should ask her why she made this decision.
Second, keep in touch with Mike, and be friends with him. I'm not saying go out with him, I'm saying keep him around and in your sister's scope of view.
If this Chris guy is a dirt bag like you say, it'll only be a matter of time. Then again, if your sister is the kind of girl who goes for guys like this, you need to let her be herself. I know you want what's best for her, but what IS best for her is making up her own mind and learning from her own experience when needed. And it seems that that's what's needed in this case.
Oh, and don't threaten low feedback. It only shows how incapable of facing the truth you are. Fulfilling your threat only prooves that you lack wisdom and are thick-skulled - something your sister has shown she suffers from.
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Wait for Chris to OD. Then she'll go back to mike.
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