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one of my " so called " best friend`z is pickin her boyfriend over me & her other friends, she say`z that she don't want to be w/him and all that but still yet she blows us off for him all the time .. shes 15 & he`z 19, & he treats her like crap, he picks her friends, & where she can & can't go .. shes not aloud outside or nuthin . . her mom doesnt know about this or even that they are datin .. should i let her mom in on whuts going on .. i mean shes 15 not an adult she should be able to have fun right
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YOU SHOULD TELL HER MOM! This is a serious matter. It is illigal for your friend to be dating that man. He is 19 and she is 15. Also he is harrassing her. This is a serious matter and I suggest you talk to your friend and her mom if she is really your best friend!
GOOD LUCK!
I hope I helped!
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I think its your choice. But if I were you I would talk to all your friends to see why he picks them up and see what they do. He could be hurting them. And her mom dont know?!!! yeah tell her bc she can get in serious trouble for that!
Bianca
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Ok yes you need to tell her Mom because if I'm not mistaken, that's illegal. She is not 18 or older and is not supposed to be dating someone who is 18 or older, which he is. And since she says she doesn't want to go out with him. She might only be with him because it makes her feel special or she might even be scared to break up with him and/or not know how. So you need to tell her that she needs to pick right between him or you. Tell her that she is not gonna last with him. Its puppy love. And that when they do break up, if she picked him over everyone else that she is not gonna have anymore friends.
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Well mabye you should talk to her about it and tell her how you and her other friends feel about her and her boyfriend's relationship and how she acts when shes around him. Let her know about how y'all feel. I dont think you should tell her mom about it cause then your friend will be mad at you and that would cause a bigger problem. just talk to her and sort it out.
hope this helps.
<3 Gabby
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Personally, it sounds like the beginning of an abusive relationship to me. He should not be picking her friends and telling her where she can and can not go. It's too controlling not to be suspicious. First, talk to her about it and then if it becomes serious tell her mom. If you do tell her mom, be prepared for your friend to become very angry with you. Another aspect to think about is that if something really bad happened and you could have prevented it, would you feel guilty? Hope I helped and hope everything turns out ok.
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You should deffinitly not tell her mom unless something serioussly bad happens. She will learn a lesson from all this that going out with a guy that treats her like crap and picks her friends is not the right guy to date. And, that friends are very important in life. She shouldnt have chosen either, she should have chosen both. I hope I helped. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina~
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that definately does NOT sound like the type of guy she should be going out with. i would definately tell her mom. her mom will probably make her break up with him or smthn, and your friend might get mad at you--but its worth it. in the long run you'll be helping her and you guys are friends...its not like she wouldn't do the same thing for you. shes probably really scared that this guy controls her life and she probably misses her friends so she might be REALLY thankful. either way--if she gets mad or not--you should definately tell her mom. and it sucks that she blows you guys off but its probably not her choice, its his. and thats just wrong.
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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Stop treating the letter "s" like a bastard child.
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hey...i would help out yur friend and tell her mom because your friend could get hurt or maybe she is getting hurt and is not saying anything and then because of the way he is treating her now could effect her in the long run and damage her self esteem and stuff like that but i would let someone know if i were you so your friend is safe an yu get her back to being normal and hanging out with you on friday nights an having funn like a normal teen i eman shes gonna have her time to be 19 and have funn i mean shes only 15 help her out tell someone..she will thank you in the end......
xox Maris and Ally
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this guy sounds like trouble. you should talk to your friend about dumping him. She doesnt deserve to be treated like that by her boyfriend. and remind her that friends are forever and boys are whatever!!! if she doesnt listen to you then you should tell her mom. she might be mad at first but she will thank you later.
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