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well, a couple nights ago i was at my best friends house, and her brother was there and we both really like eachother! well when my friend fell asleep so he came into his sisters room where i was and he started making out with me. So we were just making out for a while and then he fingered me and i gave him a hand job! well then he had to go cause his mom didnt know that we were making out and everything so he left and then on monday he had a g/f. so i do not know what to do cause i really love him and i thought he loved me to! so do i talk to him about it or do i just let it go??? please help!
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he is a jerk. He doesnt love you and you dont love him. and he is a jerk to his gf. Is that the guy you want? I truly think it is not possible to love someone unless they love you back. Love is a equal thing. it goes both ways. find an equal. he isnt it. Do you cheat on your bf's? then why would you want one that is going to cheat on you?
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This guy sounds like a total jerk and he doesn't deserve a girl like you. When guys are younger, they have one thing on their mind; sex. They don't care about hurting the girl they're with, all they want is some skin. It sounds like that is all he wanted from you too. Since he did that stuff with you one night, than had a girlfriend the next. It shows that he isn't a good guy to be with. I know you may have feelings for him, but I suggest just letting it go and getting over him. This guy isn't even worth your time. There's better guys out there, that'll treat you right. Don't be stuck on a jerk, when you could have a sweetheart.
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Um, that guy is a complete jack-off. That was reallyreally lame of him to use you like that. Don't make yourself think you love a guy like that. There's so much better than that, and you'll find it when you're meant to.
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First thing you should learn...wish you had known this before, teen boys have one track minds. Most of them anyway. That track is sex. A lot of them don't care who or what just as long as they get it. They do not associate it with love, that's a girl thing.
He may have said he loved you. If he did he said it to get his way. You can talk to him if you'd like, be prepared for him to act as if you should have known it meant nothing. If you can let it go I think I would just try to do that.
Its always a good idea to date a guy for awhile before you let things go to far. Then you know for sure its more than sex he wants.
So sorry this happened to you. Some guys are real
a**holes. :)
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