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i love my X but he has a gf now.. we were together for 8 months and i broke up with him and left for vacations. after i came back he asked me back but for some reasons we never hooked up again and fought. he started dating this girl and now they are together. when he was with her he used to call me but i never answer my cel because i was angry at him. about a month ago we saw each other at a party and he was with my best friend the whole party taking about me, he said "i would leave my gf just to be with her, i still love her." and more.. we talked but not much because i was too nervous to face him. we chatted and i asked him if what he had said was true and he said yes after that we didn't speak again, he didn't do anything neither did i. about 3 days ago he saw my best friend in tennis and they talked. she said "i always believed that you and alex would end up together" and he said "me too".. he always has in his nicks about past love and first love quotes like "i would never love the way i loved you" "it's so hard to forget about you" .. in his profile (wich he updates every week" he has "single" in his status. my parents were getting divorced, i was dealing with bulimia and my mom found out and gave me a hard time, i was feeling very low about me at that time but now i want him back. i think i'm losing him because he has on his nickname "now a love story is coming to an end" ..PLEASE advice me because i DO love him but put yourself in my position and tell me exactly what would you do!! remember that putting myself out there IS REALLY HARD.. PLEASE..advice me!!
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you NEED to tell him how you feel. otherwise he will think you're not interested. you already know how he feels but he wont feel that way forever so go get him while he does!!
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if you two like each other that much you should definently get back together. i know it's hard to talk to him but you have to talk to him. let him know that you like him. first ask him if he still likes you, then tell him that you like him too. he said he would leave his gf to be with you, so if you tell him then ya'll can get back together again. hope it works out!
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These things happen. Start talking to him, but be sure he has broken up with the other girl or you might be wasting your time. Remember that good friends and boyfriends stick with you when things are going downhill despite how ill and crabby you are. Try to be thoughtful of his feelings and what he needs from you even when you are needy too.
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You've got to talk to him if you don't want to lose him!!! And be more aggressive. Don't just find out that he still loves you and then leave it at that. You should say, "I keep hearing that you still like me, and I definitely still like you and don't want to lose you." Then if he says he still likes you too, make a plan to hang out sometime soon. And then hopefully you two can start dating again and straighten things out!!! I know it's hard putting yourself out there like that, but won't it be worth it if you get the love of your life back???
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Aw.. This a really sad story and i would say that you really really really need to talk to him about it sounds to me that he likes you and i think that if you talk to him everything will strighten out you cant expect to have a relationship if you dont talk to each other thats the most important part
Go0od Luck
Sarah
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ok well first i bet you love him because this almost made me cry and i think you should call him or send him a letter do something because this letter reminded me of The movie THE NOTEBOOK and that couple was so in love so please talk to him he loves you too and im sure everything will be fine good luck
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It sounds like he still likes you to me. You still like him. You just keep avoiding each other for some odd reason! You really need to muster up your courage and have a talk with him. In person or online it doesn't matter which. Afterwards though, you have to continue to talk. You can't just wait for the other one to make the first move the next day. Go find him right away and start talking. I know it will be hard for you but if you want a relationship with this guy you're going to have to just do it. Hope it works out for you. :)
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