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My best friend had Sex
Im a 16/f and my best friend iss a 18/m. Well, my best friend had a gf for 2-3 years and they were in love. he was madley in love with her and her back. Someting happened and now they broke up. that was 3 months ago. ONE month ago, my friend moved to Texas. He met this girl and they started dating, yesterday was theyre 1 month anniversary and they already had sex. I got mad at him because he met her a MONTH ago and already had SEX! I mean, I expected SO MUCH MORE from him. and He tells me its none of my buisiness, and yeah its not, but im his best friend also, and I just dont get it I tol dhim its rebound and he told me its not because he rebounded on me for a week . So he liked me for a week . and stopped. got a gf, and had sex with her. He tells me he has strong feelings for her and they applied to the same colleges So why the heck am I so pissed at him for having sex a MONTH into a relationship...? am i wrong for being pissed? and i cant figure out weather im jealous or not... i dont think i am. but just THINKING about him having sex with some girl he just met makes me upset. help :(
He moved to Texas and I live in AZ.
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You shouldnt be mean towards him i mean you do have the right to be mad because you care about him. You just probably care about him and want whats best for him. He may later regret what he did tonight but thats his doing and you just remember and learn from his mistakes. Just talk to him. I actually can relate. I mean I got pretty torn up about my best friend when she had sex and i was like wow.. so just talk to him .good luck. trix
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OMG thats acctually bullshit okay i mean you becuz its his lyfe juss talk to him about it u cant stop him. your acting lke you have made rules for him and is his parents. TRUST ME I KNOW!!
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Hey, you have every right to be pissed. Try emailing him about it! Ask him why he did it. They may be in love, but 1 month is too short, I think. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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My dear, you are upset because you could not be there to approve his choice in girls. If he dated a girl 2-3 years and nothing, then what's up with this girl that she let him in? Is she a slut? Is she right for him? Will she hurt him? You are worried that he's falling too hard too fast and will be burned or end up in serious trouble. This is perfectly normal. Just know you can't force him to do or not do something he feels he's ready for. Different relationships progress at different speeds. Pray she's good to him and just be his friend. Good Luck!
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Maybe it's cuz you exspected if he did have sex he would have it with the other girl.hey you're just tryin to keep him safe,but there's nothin you can do 'bout the sex part they already had it.Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!
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Yur just looking out for your friend. It is a bit early to have sex for them i think but if they feel that they are ready than they can. Maybe deep down inside you like you guy friend mre then a friend.
~Brina~
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I think you might be jelouse...But i know that you care for him also..You might have some feelings for him that are more then "just friends" feelings. If he wants to have sex when he just met someone you cant control that. If he wants to mess up then thats his fault. Especially if he gets mad when you care about him. He shouldnt get mad if you care...So just let him do what he wants...Also try telling him how you feel about him if you truly find out that you DO like him...Sorry my answer wasnt exactly good...Hope i helped though!
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ok, yeah you can be mad at your friend for having sex with someone he just met, thats understandable, but the fact that hes 18 and having a life out in texas, he probably has things going on, and he may or may not really have strong feelings for this girl, but hes probably got some stuff going on. You have every right to be upset, but dont stress and obsess over it, if hes your best friend, you guys should be able to talk about it, hope i helped, good luck, i know this wasnt much of a help, but i tried, its tough, but just work it out and things will work out the right way, dont worry. -Angel
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