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i dumped my boyfriend because he lied to me about doing drugs. Everyone told me he was bad news and all my guy friends who were his friends too told me i deserved way better then him. I still wanted proff and i got it on the night b4 homecomming.i dumped him after i saw him smoking weed with some other guy. its been over a month since that night i caught him and broke up, but just the other day he randomly asked me y i broke up with him, i tried to explain telling him how he lied, but he didnt see that as a good enough reason. did i do the right thing?
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Of course! I mean if he went behind your back.. why trust?
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yeah you did.. if he doesnt realize that him lying to you about that really hurt you and affected you then he's definately not worth your time.
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hey
you did do the right thing he shouldnt have lied to you and you do desrive better
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You definitely did the right thing. Why trust a guy who's on weed's opinion? Lol. Trust, you did the right thing.
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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that really depends. if you talked to him about it and something along the lines of "I have a really big problem with drugs i dont think i could even be friends with someone who smoked weed" then yes you did the right thing. other than that im gonna have to say you didnt. im not going to say that there is nothing wrong with drugs, but they arent as horrible as people make them out to me. well actualy most are but marijuan isnt. now that too depends, if he was smoking every day then yes it is a bad thing but its still something you should have talked to him about. if he was just smoking every once in a while then i dont really see a problem with it. but the one thing you definitely should have done is told him why you broke up with him, that is something you should do no matter how horrible it is. He most likely has no idea that you saw him smoking and doesnt know why the two of you broke up. you also dont know that he wasnt lying to you, peer pressure is hard to resist maybe he hadnt been smoking theentire time the two of were going and just succuumed that one time.
Anyways to summarize:
You did the wrong thing.
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Ok so the lying is the problem and not the drugs, did everyone else that based their answer on only drugs get a 1 as well? the thing is you should tell him why and until you do you are in the wrong.
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OF COURSE YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! he was a loser. he obviously didnt care enough to stop for you when he was lieing. of course hes going to think its not going to be a good reason cuz hes a loser and he cant see what he did was wrong. but yeah you did the right thing. hes the one doing something wrong.
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YES! if he doesn't respect you and stop smoking, definitely not the one
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Yes you did the right thing!
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Yup, you definitely did the right thing! No offense, but it's pathetic that he doesn't know why you dumped him! Come on, drugs! Never get involved with someone who does drugs! Someone who lies to you isn't worth your time! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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yes you did do the right thing! i think it's pathetic that he doesn't think its a good enough reason.. it shows he is totally not worth it! but when you broke up with him, did you tell him why? or did he just decide to ask you about it to see if you would tell him a different answer?
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Yes, you made the right choice. If he doesn't see it as a good enough reason to break up with him, then it was probably the best choice you've ever made in your life. He is unrepentant and will not stop just for you. He's going to have to hit rock bottom before he realizes just how badly he's hurting himself. Stay strong and don't go back. Luck and Love!
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Don't listen to him you did the right thing.It's his fault he didn't tell you he was smokin weed.He's not good enough for you if he lies to you.So,just ignore him and you'll be fine.Merry Christams!!!!!!!!!!!
-pinayprodigy-
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Of course you did the right thing! Dont ever get involved with someone who does drugs.
~Brina~
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yes you did the right thing, leave it at that, you were too good for this guy, but you don't have to listen to me, I'm just a random stranger from a website, listen to your friends, they're right, believe me though, you did the right thing, and if anything, you should be proud of yourself, because you can find better, any reason that you give a guy for breaking up with him is a good enough reason. Dont even stress on it. Keep ya head up. -Angel
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