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Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :)
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if u comfortable... then yes.. but u shudnt let it go further than that *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*
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If you feel that it is right then yes it is right. Don't do anything just because you think he wants to. He will have more respect for you if you stop him doing something that you're not ready to do yet.
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That depends on how you felt about it. If you didn't like it, then of course you need to tell him to stop. It's your relationship, so you're the one who's the judge of what's wrong and what isn't. It's not something someone else can judge for you...I'm also thinking that if you have to ask whether it's right or not, you might not be ready to move that far yet. For now, I'd stay to making out if that's the case.
Hope I helped
JyNxiE
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If you feel like you guys truly love eachother, and you will both be together for a long time, then it's perfectly fine. BUt if you dont feel comforatble with where he's putting his hands.. then tell him your not readii
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no its not wrong unless u dont feel comfortable with him doing that. if YOU dont feel comfortable with him doin that, then tell him not to. Other than that its not wrong. hope i helped. ~Candy
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if it makes you uncomfortable then yes you should tell him that's kinda sexual harassment.. but if you enjoy it and it doesnt really make you feel awkward or like weird then go for it.
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I'm glad you asked. Here's my answer and I hope I help you... It's not wrong unless when he does it, it makes you feel weird or uncomfortable. Every person is different... and some people feel uncomfortable just holding hands while it might not make someone uncomfortable until they move on to having sex or they might be comfortable with doing all of that and maybe even more. So truly it just depends on how it makes you feel and whether or not you like being touched like this by him.
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Aw i know what you mean sweetie. Well that totally depends on how YOu feel. If your okay with him doing that, and you love him, trust him, make sure he's not just doing that for fun or 'to get some'... just stuff like that. Its how You feel about it. And If you feel the slightest bit uncomfortable.. you should tell him that you like doing stuff with him but somtimes you feel uncomfortabl cuz its too fast or you just wanna wait a little while more so it can be special or somthing like that. Make sure you go with your inside feeling and not what you think he would like or want. He should respect that and maybe he glad that you respect yourself too! you never know.. but just do what your comfortable with and what feels right :)..Only if you love him ;)
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Well you need top set your own personal bounderies and dont let anyone pass them untell your ready. If you felt comfortable with him doign that and you believe it is okay then it isnt nesicarily wrong. Think abotu it tho... Personaly this will sound lie all geeky or w/e but im not going past makingout till marridge. You need to set a boundray like that.
hope i helped
-beccers_boo
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no.. it's not wrong if you like it. if you don't want him to do that stuff, it's wrong. it's wrong to let him force you into things you don't want to do. make sure he doesn't do that to you. because that situation sucks like a bitch! good luck!
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Well, I guess it's whatever you feel comfortable with. As long as you don't go too far, it's ok. I can't really pass judgement on you, so just do whatever makes you comfortable. Just make sure that whatever you do you don't regret later on.
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It isn't "wrong", UNLESS you weren't comfortable with it. I mean, there isn't a right age for that stuff, it just depends on the people. If you're comfortable, just be sure things don't get too carried away...and remember, you don't HAVE to do anything.
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There is nothing worng with it I mean It might seem kind of strange but its not wrong I mean if an old dude did it to you it would be..lol
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No, I dont think it's wrong at all. Kids at 12 do that..whitch is sick. But at 14 it's not wrong at all.
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there's nothing wrong with him putting his hands in those places, as long as you're comfortable with it. if you're not comfortable with it, then tell him that you want to wait a little before you guys do more stuff besides make out because your not ready. he should respect your oppinion and wait until your ready. if you are comfortable with it, then there's nothing wrong with it! hope this helped.
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It depends... Did you mind it or were you uncomfortable??? Because if you think he is going to fast for you or you don't want him touching you in those areas, then tell him. I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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That's totally up to you. It's all about what you feel comfortable doing. Don't let it go too far, though. If you think you might be about to do something you'll regret later, make him stop.
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