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me and my friend
hi, im 13 and me and my best friend just had a fight,
i've known her 11 years, she was my first friend when
i moved here, and we've been really good friends since
then and more recently best friends, lets just call
this friend Christina malone. We just had a big fight.
and i mean this truthfuly we never fight. it all
started when christina Elissa and my other friend
jennipher were hanging out. jennipher told me she thot
elissa was being a bitch, but in reality she was
covering up for elissa and christina, and before when
jennipher said that i had been mad at elissa and
christina. cuz they were just ignoring me and blowing
me off and it annoyed me so much and i finally felt
like someone understood what i meant. so i confided in
to telling jennipher. later the next day tho i found
out she had been covering up for them. and i just
broke down. Elissa Christina and Jennipher are all my
bestfriends. I felt so betrayed, and hurt. And they
were amdd at me. And Elissa and Christina had a right
too, but they didnt understand how hurt i was before
because i felt they were ignoring me. i felt ditched.
When Jenn said that i didnt mean to say all of those
things like that. But i couldnt take it, bcuz it was
the first time i told somebody. But later on that day
me lyss and jen made peace again. But the one person
who i knew the longest, the one i was very close with,
who was like the other half of me, didnt even hear me
out. And she was madd. But what i told jennipher was
that Christina had changed, change is good, but
christina had changed. Towards me. Before all of us
bestfriends and undivided, but now its just
differernt, i Didnt know who Christina was any more, i
only knew teena. I miss Christina. I feel empty. Like
i dont know what to do. this may be an exaderation but
i feel so lost with out her. In homebase today she
wouldnt even talk to me, i tried to help her by
telling some1 might try to harm her but she ignored
me. she would even look at me. i was madd too, but
mostly hurt.
please help and send me back advice!
Love,
Nicole
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I feel you.You were hurt and felt betrayed ,when you have to best friends that always happen trust
someone will always be left out somehow,but it's good that you made peace.you hurt and just think about what she feels people changed.tell her what you feel ,tell her that you miss her.tell that you don't know who she is anymore.doesn't matter if she gives you an attitude or not ,don't expect an answer from her tell her what's bothering you and let it sink in.after u do that walk away .u feel releived.I hope I hepled,rate me.
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I know how you feel. When i thought i was losing my best friend, i was down in the dumps for awhile. But then i talked to her, and we worked it out. It had been just a big misunderstanding. Maybe it's the same in your case. You need to talk to her. Maybe just spend some quality time 2gether, just the 2 of you. She might feel that you've changed, or sumthin like that. Hope you work it out, tell me what happens btween u guys. Er..girls :)
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