I know I'm in love but I don't know if my parents will except it they think we should be 15 before we date but I don't want to wait til I'm 15 to date the guy I love cuz I don't want him to go out with any one else before the 9th grade in June...What should I do obey my parents or do what's right?
Additional info, added Monday December 13 2004, 7:42 pm: The right thing to do as in do what I believe.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? selectopaque answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 3:55 pm: If you were really in love, then that would mean that he loves you and feels the same way about you. In that case you should do the right thing and listen to your parents. If he feels the same way about you, then he would wait until June too. That way, he could gain the respect of your parents, which should be expected if he really cares about you and loves you.
This is such a stupid question. "should I obey my parents or do what's right?" What makes you think you know better than your parents?
Since you decided to word your question like that, I have decided that your too young and immature to realize what love is. You call yourself a prodigy, then you should be smarter and much more mature than this. [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
Tinkerbelle answered Monday December 13 2004, 9:06 pm: Obeying your parents is what's right. I know you really like this guy, but you seriously just have to wait. Don't sneak around, and don't lie. Wait until that year, you can handle it. People this young shouldn't be going around saying 'they're in love' anyway. [ Tinkerbelle's advice column | Ask Tinkerbelle A Question ]
oXISaBeLXo answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:42 pm: If your really Into this guy then I say go for it because you may loose your chance. But if your parents think very highly of you they might loose your trust.I can't exactly answer that but if i would were you i would go for the guy because if you don't it might be the end of him and you.
I hope I Helped<3 [ oXISaBeLXo's advice column | Ask oXISaBeLXo A Question ]
blondebtqueen answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:04 pm: I'm sorry to tell you this, but I think you might be a little confused obeying what your parents says is the RIGHT thing, to do... whether it's something you feel is right or wrong at this moment in time. Your parents are just trying to protect you, that's all. [ blondebtqueen's advice column | Ask blondebtqueen A Question ]
Briht_knee_89 answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:51 pm: hey hunny * heres what i think you should do, wait. i mean, if he likes you, as much as you like him, then he will understand your position and maybe then you can approach your parents about the matter.. show them how mature you can handle yourself, and then i'm sure they would trust you to handle a relationship too. you should deffinetly talk to the boy also. maybe with his help you both could convince your parents.. like maybe you could tell your parents that you've met someone you really like, and you want to date him, but didn't want to go behind they're back, then ask if they would at least take the time to meet him, and maybe you could just bring him over to the house 4 dinner.. or out to eat with your family!! well i hope i helped if u need nething else feel free to ask me!* bye ~ and go0d luck _ Merry x*Mas _ x o *britta [ Briht_knee_89's advice column | Ask Briht_knee_89 A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:44 pm: follow your heart, but also follow your parents becasue there will be other guys unless you feel this one is special then stick with your parent's plan!
Jeanettessn answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:42 pm: Jasmine,
Try to sit down with your parents and find a middle ground. If you act like a mature person, they are more likely to treat you as one. Just have a nice discussion and express your feelings for this person to them. Hopefully they will appreciate your being open with them and hear you out. [ Jeanettessn's advice column | Ask Jeanettessn A Question ]
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