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I'm at a new school where i dont know many people... i made this one friend, lets just call her anna. So anna and i have been hanging out on the weekends and stuff for the past 3 weeks and im starting to realize that she is really conceited. I don't want to have a friend like this, but i don't really have any other options because i don't want to be friendless. I don't know if you can help very much, just give me your thoughts on this, or maybe if you can relate we can talk about your experience. thanks.
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Well, maybe you should tell her how you feel about her being coneited. Then you could tell her that u still wanna b frinds but u just dont want her to b all full of herself
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well when i started junior high this year i also kinda had the same problem. none o ma friends had classe wit meh except this one rlly rlly annoyin grl.i tried gettin away from her n droppin hints that i didnt wanna hang out wit her anymore but she didnt get it. anyway in gym class i finally ,ad a new friend so i started sittin wit her at lunch n stuff so the grl finally got the hint n left me alone.well anyway wat im sayin is look fer ppl that u think that u would like to b friends wit n start out by sayin hi im- wats ur name? n it should just go from there
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Join lots of clubs!! Clubs are a great way to meet people! Drama club, where everyone is fun is great too!! I am sorry, this is the only advice I can give but trust me, join clubs and say hi to people! You'll have friends!! You shouldn't just have 1 friend! You deserve more!
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Well, a good friend would just be straight up and tell her that you don't like it. If she gets mad then she does. But you don't want other people thinking that about her either.
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Yeah, being too vein is not a good quality. Maybe there are other things about her that you like that you could concentrate on until you guys grow apart when you start finding some other friends. You will soon, I guarantee it, just give it time. Start talking to some other people, meet other people maybe the same way you met "Anna". I'm not sure if you're a social butterfly or not, but also try joining something like sports or art club or whatever you're into, then you could meet people with the same interests as you.
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That definatly sucks when something like that happens. The best thing you can do is try to talk to new people, maybe start talking to some people she hangs out with more than her. It would be better to have no friends than have one who makes you miserable when you're around. Don't be afraid to talk to new people, they'll come around soon enough,if you're willing to go talk to them.
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