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BoYfRiEnD oR fRiEnD??
ok..you see i have this boyfriend but i never rly see him an i just got on punishment for like a month which will hurt me bein able to see him..then i have this friend who i like and he likes me and hes always askin when are we gunna hook up and things like that an he lives down the street from me and i see him almost everyday and so do i lose my boyfriend for my friend..ive been with my boyfriend for 5months and we fight all the time over the DUMBEST things!
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I think you answered your own question. Never stay with someone, when you no longer want to be there.
You aren't doing him or yourself any favors. Go out & have fun with the boy down the street.
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It sounds like maybe you should take a break from your boyfriend for a little while and maybe try out your friend and see where it goes. I mean if you and your friend get along great and don't fight too much then he sounds good. You shouldn't be with someone that you get in fights with a lot and besides you won't be able to see your boyfriend very much now or later. So I say try out the friend. -Kayla
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Okay, maybe you could give yourself rest on putting so much tiresome effort into the relationship you have with your b'friend of 5 mo. and give a little bit of yourself to that friend that seems interested in you. Don't forget to think of yourself and decide who seems to treat you better, too. Try it for a little while and see where you feel most content and less stressed and happiest. Don't make any hasty overnight decisions, try my advice and then go from there. I wish you the best of happiness and that you find the right way!!
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Well then if you think you like your friend as more than just a friend then get together with him. Are you both willing to jeopardize the friendship you guys currently share? If something goes wrong are you guys ready to lose what you have now? Those are a couple of things you need to consider before you decide. Once you get with a friend and things go wrong, nothing is the same. And you will never gt back what you had as friends before you hooked up.
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It seems like you already know the awnser to the question. If you really like someone who lives right next to you, that would definatly be a better relationship, a funner one at that. Not being able to see a guy isn't much of a relationship, and it's so hard to work out. If you fight with your boyfriend all the time, then maybe it's time to break things off, and start new with your neighbor. Not being able to see him must be a bummer anyways.
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