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Boy to be or not?
..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure!
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I think if that was all he was after he would have been like all the other clowns you've dated. Seems like he may actually care what you think! You also seem to be able to talk to each other about things which is oh, so important. I think you have a keeper here. Good luck :)
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It's really hard to decide. I think only time will tell. I think you should be with him a lot longer before you even think about doing that stuff with him. Then, when you two know eachother really well, and he asks you, and you say no and he's still with you, and he doesn't pressure you, that's when you know he likes you for you. You can't know if he's using you if you've only known him for a couple days! You really can't tell but if he saw that you were uncomfortable with it and he stopped, that's a good sign. You just have to pay attention to little signs before you make any decisions. If he tries it again and you say no, see if he respects it. You just have to wait and see if he respects you. Only time will tell.
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He seems like a genuine guy and that he truly wants to be with you. It seems like he likes you and you should be grateful for that. It doesn't seem like he's given you any reason to doubt him. He didn't try anything until you told him to and then once it got uncomfortable he stopped. He's listening to how you feel and not many guys do that. Hope I helped.
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All guys want it. The good ones just know that you are more important.
He wants you more than he wants it. Be happy. You have a good guy.
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anonymous -
It sure does look like he's one of the good ones doesn't it? But to be quite honest, the possibility of him "wanting it" is just as likely.
I kid you not.
My current boyfriend of three years, he was the same way when I met him. He never made a move until maybe 7 months being with each other. But now since we know each other so well and we can communicate freely, I talked to him about it and he said that he was thinking about sex almost everytime he saw me, but he didn't want to say or do anything to give me the wrong impression. But still, he's a good guy today :)
In conclusion, most likely he's a good guy, but only time will tell. You'll know, trust me, you'll know if he only wants sex.
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aww this one touched me..this is a reallii sweet guy.most guyz just wanna get head and stuff soo keep him! just talk to him about it and see how he feelz and tell him if he wantz to tell you before and see if both of you are ok wit it.soundz like you guyz got reallii somethin special goin on.keep him:)
good luck wit him.and i hope i helped
megz
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those are pretty good signs that he likes you..dont let this one go, hes special :)
i know what it feels like to be used ..crappy feeling..so enjoy being with a guy who isnt all about doing stuff...it will make it that much more special when you do stuff
:) man i wish i could have what you do..well best of luck with this guy because he sounds great!
-meliss
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well just tell him that are ok with it but you only want it if he does and i think he likes you and he only wants to do what you do so hope i helped good luck love talktome224
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He likes you a lot. The signs that he likes you is that he asks if it's all right before he "does anything". Just take your time and don't rush anything, and it might happen!
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I think he likes you he seems like a really nice guy that thinks before he does! Don't rush things!Hope This Helped!
*!ClAiR!*
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this guy obviously likes you alot. and respects hat you want in a partner. if he dont wanna get down yer pants, thats a good thing. its also a good thing him and your parents get along.. thats a big thing in my book. it sounds as if this guy really adores you, and respects what you want in a relationship.. hope i helped:)
<3 bailey
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I think this guy totally likes you and respects you. Just because someone doesn't want to get into your pants, doesn't mean that they don't like you, hun. It just means that they have respect for you and they don't want to rush into things. If you really want to go further with this boy, just tell him that you want to, or give him little hits. He sounds like a great guy though. One that totally respects and cares about the girl he is with and isn't in it just to get laid. I think you found a real keeper here!
♥ Krissy
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