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I am 13 and I'm a female. A few of my guy friends seem to act real nice around me, but when they're around each other, they say bad things about me. I'd like to know if I can trust them.
I asked that question earlier and I forgot to mention that one guy is an ex-boyfriend, one likes me and I think the other likes me too. My ex and the guy who likes me are very good friends and the guy who likes me is good friends with the guy who I think likes me. I hope this will give me more help.
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well not to bash you but boyfriends at 13? does he pick you up for dates on his bicycle?. newayz if theyre bad things about you dont trust them. If you like one of them yourself talk to him when he's away from the group.
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well im pretty sure they are saying bad thigns about you cuz one of them is your ex boyfriend but thats about all i can say.
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Very confusing about who likes who and so on.
The short answer is no. Don't trust them at all.
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Well my opinion is that if they are gonna talk about you when you're not around then they arent true friends. If they are being nice to you when your around but saying bad things about you when your gone then thats called 2-faced and they are fake. You need to talk to them about your feelings and let them know that you want to be their friends but you cant be friends with people that talk about you.. o0x Ashlee
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When guys are together, they are IDIOTS. Tell them one on one that they need to stop acting cool around their friends because it's hurting your feelings. And if they're hurting your feelings, and they're really your friend, they'll stop. If they don't stop, well, you need someone who respects you as a friend.
Also, sometimes when guys like you they're too immature to tell you so they make fun of you. That might be the reason. Either way, they need to cut the crap and you need to tell them that.
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your x is probley just jelouse that some body else likes you and he trys to stop that from happening. I think you can trust the other 2 guys just not your x.
-Manders *Hope I Helped*
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chances are that even though he is your friend, your ex is still your ex. sometimes they just talk shit because, well, thats what ex's do. Since the other two guys are his friends, they're going to agree or contribute, but that doesnt mean that they dont like you or that its what they think. 99% of the time, a guy isnt going to tell his friend that he likes their ex... it could ruin a friendship, so they have to play it off like they dont like you, and they often over-compensate by putting you down.
all i have to say is, if they dont say it to your face, i wouldnt worry about it. if they really thought that badly of you, they would tell you, and not hide it. your feelings matter to them =)
hope this comforts you somewhat.
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They might just do that because they don't want anyone to know that they still like you. Just tell them that you know they are talkin behind your back and that it needs to stop if they want to be friends!
Hope I Helped!
*!Clair!*
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It's possible they're saying bad things about you to convince the other not to go out with you. However, a true friend wouldn't trash you behind your back. If they had a problem with you or something you did, they'd sit down and tell you face to face.
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Well, i wouldnt be able to trust someone who was all nice around me ..then talked about me behind my back..if i knew that was going on i would be pretty mad and i would talk to them about it..i mean what kind of friendship is a frienship where your constantly talking behind someones back? So if it were me i would have trouble trusting them..it would have to be something they earned back slowly..and maybe i could start trusting them a little more as time went on.
hope this helped.
-melissa- :)
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