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both friends take one side
okay i keep haveing the smae problem with my friends. This one girl always takes the other ones side because she is like obesessed wiuth her and she doesnt want the girl to get mad at her and then i am left with no friends what do i do.
p.s. this happens about every week
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Either this girl is overly obsessed with caring what others think, or you guys are in middle school or younger, where people actually do care. It's probably the latter, and if it is, well that'll blow over. First talk to your friend telling her she's hurting you, and if she's really your friend, she'll stop. If that doesn't work, maybe you should think of making some new friends. Join clubs-they're an excellent way to make friends. Then, hang out with them. If your other friend comes up to you asking why you left her, just tell her why.
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What kind of friends are these? This happens almost every week? Whoa, sounds like this girl likes getting into fights with you because she likes it when that other girl follows her. She likes being in control. Well, either you can talk to them about it, or find real friends. There are other people out there that can treat you with respect like you deserve. *goodluck*
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They don't sound like very good friends. Girls that suck-up to other girls aren't good to be around cuz they're insecure + obviously not very nice if she just always take the other girl's side, no questions asked. Try sitting down w/ them + talking to them. If they deny what they're doing, or say they'll stop but don't, etc, you should probably make new friends. I've learned that depending on friends isn't the best way to go. Most of 'em are gonna let you down anyway. Good luck, though. I hope they listen to you + stop acting rude!
..xo* Jess
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make new friends
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Girl, I think you should sit them down and ask them why they act so grimy to you and if they continue, then get some real friends, cuz they obviously aren't real friends if they treat you like that!!!!Nobody deserves that from a "friend"!!!!!!!!1
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OK....the 1st girl, who always takes the other's side, sounds really insecure about her friendships...almost like she's scared she'll lose them if she doesn't take the others side? Your other friend will need to reassure her that that's not going to happen. As for this other friend...she seems pretty argumentative! You two should both try your hardest not to argue and talk things over calmly when you do :)
You should probs also get out there and make some other pretty good friends and hang out with them for about half your time, that way you have someone to go to when these arguements happen, and if you genuinely like them and spend time with them you won't be using them :)
Good luck and Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Ok,
This is what your should do. Confront your friend about it. If she doesn't liek your idea of taking sides then find a new friend. But i think if you would confront her she will under stand. If she is your friend then she will wanna talk it out with u
Tae
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