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okay me and my 2 friends..Miranda and Ashley are always known to be "best friends" and like no one can split us up..well that's what everyone tells me..anyways..oh yeah and they are neighbors and i live a little ways away from them and i always hang out with Miranda without Ashley sometimes and then Miranda and Ashley always hang out without me..but when me and Ashley try to hang out without Miranda she ALWAYS gets mad at us..like she's always telling us that she feels left out when it's just us 2 without her..but i don't get it because we're not leaving her out we just want to hang out alone or whatever but she doesn't get that..we don't know how else to explain it to her..how should we explain it to her that we aren't leaving her out because whenever Miranda and Ashley hang out i never feel left out or whenever me and Miranda hang out with out Ashley Ashley never feels left out but this happens every time and now we have to keep it on the down low whenever we hang out alone because Miranda gets pissed off..how can we tell her that we're not leaving her out?? help me please!!
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Just tell it to her plainley.But nicely.Its har I have that problm with my 2 best friend but we alwasy talka nd work it out.
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ok. well just explain to her that sometimes you want to do things alone. like you don`t always have to be the 3 muskateers lol. you can do things with one friend without the other one feeling bad. explain to her "Miranda, we aren't leaving you out or trying to hurt you. But sometimes you need to let us be alone" and make sure she knows that she can do things with ONLY ashley or ONLY another friend. hope i helped ! - courtney
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anonymous -
Tell Miranda that all three of you share different interests with one another and all of those interests clash sometimes. The reason why you choose to spend time with only Ashley is because you want to hang out doing what you two are interested in, that Miranda might not be. The same goes for if you were to spend time with only Miranda.
Make it clear that you're not excluding her, it's just maybe some of the things you two do might not interest her. Tell her that, or just explain that because she comes up with these emotional outbursts, you're afraid to include her in with anything!
Whatever floats your boat! Good luck.
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All you got to do is get you and Miranda and Ashley togther and you have to tell Miranda how you guys feel, Or else you guys are going to get into a big fight and talk behind ecothers backs and then it well be a big mess. Its always better to tell the person how you feel unless its gonna build up inside you then one day you are just going to explode. If Miranda really is your best friend I am sure she well understand. Good Luck!
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