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Question Posted Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:06 pm

im only 13/f and i have had 3 boyfriends but never done anything more than hold hands and hug?? i havent even gotten my first kiss! is there some way i can get it soon or do i just have to wait?? i rate high!

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GoAskMaggie answered Saturday October 15 2005, 1:01 am:
I didn't have my first kiss until I have fourteen. I wouldn't be concerned. I know that it seems like everyone is way ahead of you but trust me, years later, you will find out that they actually weren't. Don't rush things, it will all work out naturally.

Maggs

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 7:31 pm:
You just have to wait. Many kids don't have their first kiss untill their late teens. That is the honest answer. You don't need to go so fast because your friends are. Everyone finds love at their own pace. You don't need to find a boyfriend faster because your friends already had their first kiss. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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SweetCandy answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 6:14 pm:
hey when the right boy come along it well be the right 1st good luck

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lilnosy1 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 6:10 pm:
When It does happen the time will be right and It will be a special moment. You'll know when that moment comes. Good luck!!


>lil'nosy

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K2204 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 6:07 pm:
well, if you had, then it wouldnt have been speical right? beacuse those guys are already gone. you may not want to hear this, but its what i think, and after all, thats what you asked to hear. (see)

I think that it is better to wait, until you are with someone who you like, the kiss will mean more and be more memorable. so will the "stuff" that you do. I persionally wouldnt do "stuff" unless i was in a long commited relationship with someone who i truly loved and trusted. I wouldnt do antyhing that i would be able to tell my parents.

just be careful out there, and make sure that you are with someone special before doing "stuff" and wait for your first kiss, isnt it better if you wait for it to come to you, when you dont expect it, and it be special, than you work and work and work for it, and then get dissapointed when it doesnt happen, or it happens the way that you totally didnt plan?

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kathrenhallie answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 5:59 pm:
if i were you i would like birng somethings up in that cadigore...like what base ahve you been to?...or have you ever been kissed??.....it has always worked for me!

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beatingheartsbabyx3 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 5:47 pm:
well dear maybe you need to step in and hint that you want it or dump one till you find one . and ur a lil young wen you are older youll get way more guys
<3 loves

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monkeyG007 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 5:33 pm:
You don't have to worry about that when the time is right you will get kissed i have not got kissed yet. I am in no rush. You just need to take things slow.

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wildNcrazy231 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 5:32 pm:
dont wait get it now! maybe u had really shy boyfriends. if your going out with a boy you should know that they want to kiss you but they are very nervous about it. maybe you could just kiss him so your getting your kiss and he doesnt have to worry about making the move. or you should date guys a year or two older than you so they will have more expierence and of course kiss and make out with you. LOL! good luck

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X0C0URT answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 5:09 pm:
Don't worry about it! There are girls who don't get there first kiss until they're 18! Whatever you do, don't try to rush it, because you'll end up not enjoying it, trust me. Wait until the time is right. If you've had 3 boyfriends then guys probably like you so it shouldn't be a problem for you.

X0C0URT

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 5:01 pm:
it sounds like you want it so when you get a boyfriend you make the move. or you can wait

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im_falling_4_u answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:51 pm:
tell them you want to kiss them its as simple as that just be like "hey i really think your hott..do you think we will ever kiss?" thats all you have to say thats what i said my first time and it worked



good luck<3

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willa113 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:47 pm:
jus do it to the first guy you trust and are dating

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xBestAddiction answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:38 pm:
You need to make the first move, just lean in to kiss him and most likely he will want to kiss also. Most guys are too shy to make the first guy, or are afraid you don't want to, so you gotta let them know you want to. Good Luck!

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jcsgrlthe1st answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:29 pm:
hey hun dont rush anything...wouldnt u rather it be with someone special and mean a lot then someone not that great? just wait hun your time will come.
&hearts;BLAiR

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jbdreamer answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:28 pm:
I don't understand why so many young girls are in such a hurry to grow up. Your only 13, you are not being left in the dust because you haven't kissed a boy yet. Be patient and wait for the right boy. You don't want to remember your first kiss with a toad that you don't care about.

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icey0990 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:27 pm:
your only 13 dont worry! im 16..my first kiss was at like age 12...but i have friends who still havent been kissed..everyone gets their first kiss at different ages so wait for the boy that will make it special!
-melissa-

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shake answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:25 pm:
You're too young.

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JOKER1392 answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 4:25 pm:
dont rush in to things the time will come when you get your first kiss

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