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Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions?
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okay those people are jealous you are probally prettier then those people my sister got teased about that to and guess what they were just jealous about her because thay know that she was better and prettier then those people you dont have to beleive everything everyone says about you and you will have times were boys ask you out guess what I am 18 years old and never beean asked out so I know exactly how you feel what you have to do when people are teasing you is ignore every thing they say about you it will get old to them and they will soonly stop I have a fiend and is aretistic and gets teased alot what he did was ignored every one that was teasing him and finally it got old and they stopped I am so sorry that this is happening to you and hope my advice helps
luv BrItTaNy
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hi
first let me tell you that you are not ugly! and the more you believe that the more ugly you will feel! so stop putting yourself down all the time. and about you thinking your ugly. i know its hard to stop feeling so down about yourslef but honestly once you start to realise what a great person you are and what great people are out there for you to meet the less ugly you will feel. you mention your nose dont be self conscious about it. whenever you are with your mates again just think in your mind "i am gorgeous" over and over again untill you shine with confidence and beauty. honestly. so who cares that you have never been asked out? just wait for the perfect boy to come and whisk you off your feet! :) just be happy and let your confidence shine through. i think part of your low self esteem is pschological sorry if the answer not what you wanted but its true. and also treat yourself to some new clothes, make up transform your image. if you are really unhappy with the way you look, go to your doctor and explain and you might get a free operation to fix the problem (i dont know if you are in the uk but that is what happens over here) but then remember if you do, you have let your low self esteem bully you into surgery and u want to be happy without any thing like that!
hope i helped.... tell me how it goes
love emma
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i'm guessing you young, in your teens. people at that age are so cruel and it hard because you at that age where your trying to fit in and feel confident and be yourself.
you sometimes think you are pretty which is a good start because if you were ugly you'd see that and feel that all the time.
you need confidence, i also am very insecure about my looks and was bullied loads but i found that councelling helped boost my confidence loads, it got to a point where i could cope with bullies and stand up for myself and not be afraid to go out incase i got called ugly, so i think that can be a good step for you to take. if you have school/college councelling then its free or if you go through your doctor and asked to be refferd thats free too.
also, another thing that gave me a huge confidence boost was having a makeover in a shop. it was for my birthday, but they are so nice and make you look really beautiful. that will boost your confidence too and make you feel better about yourself. (mine cost £10 but you got £10 off make up so its like having a free makeover)
also, experiment with your clothes, hair and make up, find out which styles suit you best and which colour make ups, the ones you use now might not be making you look your best but if you have a proffessional makeover they'll tell you how to do your make up properly and find out what suits your face best.
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people tell you your ugly? thats f-ed up. first off..to be beautiful, first it starts with your attitude. if you have a good way of seeing things people might see you differently
hope i helped
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well one thing is that you need to stop putting your self down..so what if your not as pretty has your friends..who cares other than you!!well if you want to look prettier then maybe you shouild buy or wear make up or something like t hat..or buy the clothes you like...or you do what you thnk is right to make your self look pretty..what do you think that you couild have that wouild make you look pretty!and so w hat if you have a weird nose..no ones perferct..you shouild not tell your self your ugly..and im sure it doesnt matter to other people how you look!!what does it matter to you!!it shouildnt matter..but you know just try to do what you think is right..what will ake you look prettier!!
hope in helped..
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101
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I ignore poeple like that and i dont think that it should matter what you look like .. they are probably ugly them selves i wouldnt let afew people bring down my self esteem becoz of that !! hope that i helped !!
i.m. me - - - xdingyxbabex
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Buy yourself a man whore for a night.
Just like the movie Duece Bigalow - Male Gigalo.
Most of the ladies in that movie felt a great deal better about themselves, so i'm sure it would do you the world of good.
As we all know, movies always tell the truth.
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ignore them. really. just have confidence in yourself because what they say doesn't matter. everyone has flaws. my teeth are the worst (getting braces soon though) yet i still find confidence in myself.
good luck hun.
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Don't worry about it the best way to get rid of that feeling is to make yourself feel better. Do something that you wanna do or you haven't done. But if the guys only want girls with good looks chances are if you went out with them you would dump them right away. Ps another way to feel better is to get a makeover for your room rearrange it, organize it etc. and go shopping, get new makeup, new clothes!
Hope you'll feel better!
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Just because someone hasn't asked you out...that doesn't mean your aren't beautiful. I am a model and I didn't get asked out until I was a freshman!!! Guys are jerks and sometimes they can't see true beauty. God has a wonderful plan for your life and the right guy will come along. Trust God with your life and pray about it every day. Anyone can give you advice...but no one can fill the emptiness inside you. The only one who can ever fill that is God. So just pray and trust Him....and eventually it will all work out. One of my favorite verses is "All things work for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28
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Go shopping! Pick out cute clothes, nice makeup, cute shoes, the works. Anything that you like and looks good on you. Then just be yourself! If people say you are ugly, ignore them.
And like they say, beauty is only skin deep. Try using other facets of your personality to get guys. If they just like you for looks, chances are you wouldn't want them anyway.
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okay if ur ugly get a loud of makeup and sluty clothes and stuff and breakout and show the bitches that call you ugly what now and change ur whole self image to what you like and youll show them up. not everyones pretty buttheyres many ways to make urself pretty.
<3 loves
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doll your self up as cute as you can people will compliment you and you'll feel good bout what they have to say
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Look at all the people in the world that have accomplished soooo much. You see them on TV. They have intelligence, they have power. Many of them are not pretty. But anyone that has not accomplished what they have would be thrilled to be in their company. I am talking about politicians, artists, musicians, athletes. Talent and brains bring power and when you have power, it doesn't matter what you look like. BEsides, you'll be rich and you'll can get a make over if you still think you need one. I am serious, because you said you were. This won't happen when you want it to. Unfortunately, Because you are still young. But it can happen, but you have to plan and work at it. Stay in school. get a good education, go to college work hard. Turn in good work. Do extra work. BE proud of what you accomplish, then accomplish more. Take an "I can do that" attitude. Because you can do anything you set your mind to. And don't expect the rewards right away, but if you do all this. There will be rewards, believe me. Trust me. I know what I am talking about. It happened to me. I thought I was an ugly duckling in school and no one ever asked me out. I just hit the books an did well and went to college. I have had a very successful career and own my own home and my own business.And more men were attracted to me that I knew what to do with. When I went to my 30 year class reunion, I lookede better than anyone else there. THe guys kept trying to talk to me, and the girls that were sooooo pretty in high school, looked ragged and beat and old. I took care of myself and my body and looked much younger and better than all of them. It was a lot of fun and I showed them all. And it felt good to turn down dates from guys that wouldn't give me the time of day in High School. And hey, the 30 years that I spent between high school graduation and my reunion were not boring either. They were great. So that is my advice. I hope you take it. It is hard work, and it will take patience to. But it will all be worth it. Anyone can accomplish this if they set their mind to it. I didn't think I was very smart either, but turns out, I WAS!!!!
GOod luck to you
Michele
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God makes each of us different and if your friends call you ugly thats just messed up
you shoudnt think of your self so low dont listen to what opther people say you have to think of your self as beautiful and feel confident so other people can think of you as that
dont make your self feel miserable just because of a little thing who cares what people think what matters is what you think
hope i helped if you need anything feel free to ask ♥
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I know you don't want to here that your unique, but you are God has a purpose for everyone. Just because your different now just wait till you get older. See the thing is all your friends are pretty now but when they get older there going to be the ones that don't get the attention and your going to have all the attention. If your worried about your nose don't worry you can always get a nose job everyone does it now a days, but don't feel like your ugly just because you haven't come into your beauty yet.
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omg your friends are bitches if they tell you your ugly thats just mean you should become idk u should do what you want and if guys dotn flirt with you flirt with them do everything that you would do if you were pretty or felt you were pretty and if your friends make you feel like shit make them feel like shit if they make jokes about you being ugly be like "i don't think your the next Paris Hilton either" or just come up with comebacks that will affend them liek if one has a big butt be like "your not the next jlo hun stop making everyone look at your BIG ass"
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i would say god made me and in his eyes im am Beautiful!!!Dont let no one phunk you down cause they are ugly for saying you ugly!!!!! you are beautiful in your own ways!!!!! Dont listen to what people say!!!
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aww hunny. i know how it feels!! but everyone is beautiful. i suggest maybe getting a makeover. maybe you should tell your parent/guardian that you are feeling this way and seriously ask them if you could get a makeover. try a new hairstyle, new color, and get some makeup tips from the stylist. also try getting some new clothes and a shopping spree always helps. nothing feels better than walking around in a new outfit!! hope i helped:)
<3 bailey
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you really shouldnt care what people say as long as you like your self its all good don tworry youll grow pretty and every1 will regret what they 1ce told you people tell me ALOT of things cuz i have big breast but i know its not the end off the world just dont let any of that stuff get to ur head
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Pick one of your features that you think is attractive and play it up. A pretty smile, nice hair, shapely body, etc.
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wow, even though you told me NOT to say this but im gonna say it anyway. YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL IN YOUR OWN WAY! the next time you look in your mirror i want you to think to yourself about the wonderful things about you...not just outside but inside. trust me i feel that im ugly sometimes too, but then i relize in the end that im my own person and dont need the people who bring me down. i hope i helped and if you want to ask me anything else go ahead.
♥ leah AKA cookierat123
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Kids are so mean these days. You wanna know the real reason they call you ugly? That's because they're insecure with themselves, so they put others down to make themselves feel good.
Ways to raise your self-esteem? Be yourself. Wear what you feel best in. Be nice and considerate to others, and when I say this, I mean that you should not stoop to the people who call you ugly's level. The only true self-esteem comes from yourself, from within, not from putting down other people. And SMILE. Be happy! Hang out with friends, do things that make you happy!
You're not gonna get anywhere with that "I'm so ugly" attitude, so get rid of that. Instead, praise yourself. Like, when you get up in the morning, say to yourself, "You know what? I look GREAT today."
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders
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well i*m not gonna tell you all the crap that you don*t want to hear but go out and buy yourself a cute new outfit that always boosts my confidence, and don*t hang around with the idiots who call you ugly no1 needs to hear that kind of negativity. Also focus on the things about you that are "pretty" bc i know there has to be a few things. I don*t really know any other advice.. prolly didn*t help much but i did my best i spose.. if you have any more questions im me (crazlilchelc152) or drop one in mi inbox! <3<3 keep your head up hun.. chelsea
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I don't have any specific advice to make you feel better about yourself, but I wrote this to someone that had the same problem and maybe it will help you...
DON'T listen to any of the people that say you should cover yourself up with make-up! I mean, you COULD if you wanted to, but is this truely how you want to be? Cover yourself with make-up just so you could blend in with the crowd? Lure in a guy just because he likes your mask? When happens when people see the real you? Will they love you for you or will they immediately dump you? Those are some questions you need to think about. In fact, you yourself said you want to learn how to like yoursel the way you are. So stick with that.
When I looked in the mirror I used to think I was ugly! Which is what EVERYONE (There are exceptions) thinks about themselves! Even the most beautiful girls can think they're ugly. Take models for example. They're gorgeous, but if their chin looks a little fat in one picture they call themselves ugly and become anorexic. Not a good thing. It's all in the MIND.
It's not our fault, I'll tell you that. It's the media. They have influenced everyone. They've gotten everyone to buy their products. They set the standards for beauty, which no one can achieve. The models in pictures aren't even that beautiful, they use the computer to make them PERFECT. The media doesn't care about us! They care about making money.
It's also genetics. We are born the way we are and look the way we do because of our parents. Now, don't go blaming your parents or ancestors. Our genes are what makes each and every one of us different. They make us unique!
So you need to remember that it is not YOU that is ugly. NO ONE is ugly. The word UGLY is all in the MIND. It's an OPINION. Opinions are set by the media. So you see, it's not your fault. You need to learn to love the way you are. Focus on your good points. DO IT. Even if it's just one thing a day, like "My nose is nice." ANYTHING. Every day, do it in front of the mirror. And don't just focus on your looks. Look INSIDE of you and tell yourself what's good. Don't ever put yourself down. You are beautiful and wonderful. This world isn't perfect, and no one can be. But the least you can do is learn to love yourself for who you are. You can't love someone else if you can't even love yourself.
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