My friend lets call her july she can be really annoying sometimes and she is really really really reallly really really lazy and slow we have only know eachother for like 1 year she drives me crazy now and has to know everything about my family she tells my mom everything and i hate it i want to tell her but she never listens! What should i do?
x0julie answered Sunday July 17 2005, 10:41 pm: First of all, you have to tell her how you really feel. If she constantly reports to your mom every single thing you do, let her know that she's invading your privacy and you need space. If she doesn't listen, you have to MAKE her listen. Be assertive, but not too aggressive. Tell her that she needs to respect what you have to say, or you won't be able to respect her. Also, you have to find out exactly why she does what she does. Try asking things like, "How would you feel if I told your family everything?" If you confront her and she refuses to cooperate, then there's really nothing you can do about it. I'm sorry if my answer wasn't what you were looking for. Good luck! [ x0julie's advice column | Ask x0julie A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 9:47 pm: you need to lay down the law with this chick. tell her that you need some space and air! tell her that your sorry if this sounds mean but you dont know wat else to do about it. i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.
gORJeSsMami answered Sunday July 17 2005, 9:42 pm: sit her d0wn & let her kn0w what she iisz d0ing wr0ng...iif she d0esn`t wanna listen make her listen! h0pe thiisz help`sz =]
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