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friend issues
ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help!
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I would tell her that you need to have a talk and tell her that you've tried forgiving her and everything and putting it behind you but i cant take it anymore .. and that it is soo wrong that she is dating your ex. like some people say "bestfriends dont date best friends exes"
but thats basicly all that i can tell you!!
kaitlyn jO <3
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Honestly, there wasn't even a point in writing about her, because you deserve better friends, and she`s not worth a second of your time. Girls who choose boys over friends are just bad news. When she sits their laughing, she`s just as bad as him for talking about you. Just ignore her, she`ll get the picture. As for she`s everywhere you go, ask you`re other friends to go places on your own, but MAKE SURE you don't say anything bad about her, because that would be sinking down to her level.
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Ok... like the day after you broke up with your bf was the day that you should definately have told her to get a life, perferably in another state. Tell her, in what ever words you want, that shes a bi_tchy backstabbing a_sslicking hor, and i have no idea how she can even look you in the eye. HOW CAN SHE?? and how can you let her? How can you be CIVIL with her at all? You're a girl. this is when your supposed to start screaming and tear one, or both, of her eyeballs out. Its your right by nature.
Dont worry about hurting her feelings, because she obviously doesnt care about hurting yours. You have every right to stick up for yourself, and everyone knows that dating their 'best friend's' ex is not allowed for at least a month. Two weeks would have shown that she at least cared if you dropped dead. The next day, man you better watch out. This girl is unappropriate language. You let her walk over you. You know you deserve better. But hey- she's the one with the dead meat boyfriend. She has whats coming to her.
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She is not your friend. I would ditch her. Tjat had to bea huge violation about what friendship is suppost to be like.
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Well,
fake friends are definitly not needed in life... you need true friends and if she can't be that, she doesn't need to be your friend. She doesn't deserve you because obviously, you're a true friend because I know you wouldn't do that to her and the fact that she just does it to YOU for no reason is awful! The best thing you can do in this situation is to talk to that girl and tell her how you HATE that she's talking about you and since she did this, I'm not going to tell you to be nice or calm while saying this. lol. Express yourself and tell her EXACTLY how you feel and don't keep anything from her because she needs to know and maybe you guys can become fiends once again and she'll understand. If she does get mad, than, she doesn't deserve to be treated like a friend anyway. You're better than her and whatever you do, don't cry in front of her or anything like that. Just don't let her bother you at all because the more she knows it's bothering you, the more she's going to try to make you mad by talking about you more and more. If you need more advice, you know I'm here to answer any questions that you may have. You can also email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla
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Well I think you should just tell her because if you don't really like her then you won't care if she gets hurt because she'll be back to her old self in no time!! Just be straight with her.I hope I helped>
claire
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I think Somegirl is right couldn't have said it betta. But with the whole thing when your hangin and she is there sit the friend thats friends with the bitch and say "listen lets hang w/o her and you can hang with her w/o me. k? I just don't want you in the middle."
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ok well i think you should be straight out to your friend and tell her hey, you never stuck up for me when i got talked about behide my back so obviously we aint to good of friends since you place a boy above me and your being so fake lately and if your not gonna change i dont wanna be your friend no more .. not the new you. and then just take it from there and if she really wants to be your friend she'll start sticking up for you and changing back./..if not screw her she aint worth it..hope everything works out. rate me if ud like ;]
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