My name is Meaghan, I`m 15 years old. I`m very critical , and I have a strong view about things, which is why I love giving advice. I love expressing my opinion, especially when someone needs it. I can be VERY harsh sometime, but usually, just actually THINK of what I am saying, and you`ll understand I`m trying to help.I also have problems of my own, that I get sick of listning too, so why not help others instead? Well, I hope my advice works well for you! -Meaghan
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Age: 15
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Well I'm a lesbian and my parents don't know. How do I tell them? I'm scared they'll kick me out of the house or something. (link)
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I have a boyfriend now, but at one state I was confused and thought i was lesbian. You should definatly wait until you are definatly positive that you are gay, because belive me, now that I have a boyfriend, I cant even look at girls or my mom will make weird comments like "Do you think shes cute"...and its embarassing..so I suggest you say something like "Hey mom, do you think it`s ok to be lesbian" , and see what she says , and if she says no, then it will be alot harder to tell her, but if she says yes, i suggest you tell her straight out.
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well im 14 yr old female but ill be 15 in october and i painfully lost my virginty 3 days ago with a boi that i thought was 17 or 18 but turned out to be 20 or 21!! i have two problems now....
1) er'body in town keep askin me about it and sayin im bad and he really dont look like the type that would go around tellin er'body but im wonderin should i start denyin it or...what?
2)after i lost ma virginity i bleed(alot kinda) it was all on the toliet paper and dripped in the toliet but ma friend who don it twice didn't bleed like that but ma first time bleed worst them hers and it even bleeded today...and this happen 2 or 3 days ago....is sumthing wrong wit me?!? :( (and i kno its not ma period 4 sho)!! :( (link)
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You`re 14 years old. Go watch winne the pooh or something.
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I just moved in 10 months ago [[beginging of school]] Yeah,i made friends...but now at the end of the year they all turned against me! And its all because if this one girl hates me,they all hate me.I hate being a follower and i love to be original,so simpely,i dont follow her like my friends did. Now shes convincing everyone to hate me! She was once my friend and i never did anything wrong ][[i know this because we werent that good of friends we just sat next to each other in one subject..never called eachother and stuff..]] So she makes everyone hate me for no reason. And im so sad i cry so hard. Im not the same im just miserable. Im trying to get my mom to move back to my old city. Its takeing some effect. I would be over joyed to move back to my city. People like me and i have friends there. But my question is how can i deal with all this pressure and stress on me?
Im becomeing depressed and hateing my life. I dont want to be that kind of person seeing as i always try to look up...even down looks up to me. (link)
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It`s obvious. She`s jealous. Don't even pay attention, and yes I know it's hard to walk the halls alone in school , and feel like nobodies there for you, but wouldn't you rather be by yourself, then with girls who spend their time paying attention to your life because theirs is too boring? I can just picture that girl now. She probably walks around like she owns the school for attention. You deserve better friends. Giving into her sick games, will just drag out more tears. Don't move either, cause that's just letting them win. Be yourself, Be strong, Then all those girls will realize YOU`RE the one who`s fun to be around, and they`ll want to be around you.
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well i dont know what to do....ive liked this guy since 3rd grade and know im in 8th...i really wanna tell him that i like him but he has a girlfriend....im the type of person that doesnt like starting problems....i really wanna tell him but i dont want to just bring up the topic i want to talk 2 him about things that lead the topic....he lyked me in the middle of 6th grade and in da middle of 7th grade but now he has a girlfriend....im planning on talking to him tomorrow cause we always talk at night..so please respond before tomorrow night!! thank you soo much...what do i do?? (link)
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NEVER hold back on telling somebody what you feel. In the end, you`ll just be sorry that things didnt go as they should have, and even if they don't at least he knows your true feelings for him.
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what is a "flamer"? my friend called my other friend that and they got into a huge fight! what does it mean? (link)
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Flamer means homosexual.
but if you ask me..it means:
I`m low, and I have to dis other people about who they are, and I use sexual orientations as insults.
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ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help! (link)
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Honestly, there wasn't even a point in writing about her, because you deserve better friends, and she`s not worth a second of your time. Girls who choose boys over friends are just bad news. When she sits their laughing, she`s just as bad as him for talking about you. Just ignore her, she`ll get the picture. As for she`s everywhere you go, ask you`re other friends to go places on your own, but MAKE SURE you don't say anything bad about her, because that would be sinking down to her level.
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ok i have a friend and i recently found out that hes gay i was really suprised at first but things got better and we talked more but now hes just been so bitchy lately everyone thinks im dating him bc hes not open yet and i think that may be one of the reason for my failed attempts at relationships hes a really good person at heart and i know that but lately i dunno hes been so moody almost like a girl you know? i just cant stand it hes getting on my last nerve! what can i do to get him to be the person i used to know even after i found out he was gay??? sorry this is so long! (link)
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Being gay is a hard thing to go through. It's like all of a sudden realizing who you`ve been your whole life. Like you knew who you were in the back of your head, but you made yourself not belive it because you knew nobody would accept it. He could be moody because it`s so stressfull , and maybe people are giving him a hard time about his sexuality. I`d just wait and see what happens.
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My best friend and I have been friends for about 8 years and we go together like pb and j. Now I'm starting to feel jealous of her because she's got a lot more friends than me and I think she's a lot prettier and skinnier and funnier and all that. I KNOW she won't abandon me no matter how many other friends she has, but I just hate being jealous. (link)
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Right now you probably feel like a bad person for being jealous of your best friend, but surprisingly it happens more than you think. Just make sure you maintane your anger, and don't say anything out of line, because you don't want to lose a friend like that. Not many girls are worth keeping as friends these days, and when you find one it`s very rare. When you feel jealous, try secretly writing a list about all the things you like about yourself. That should make you feel better about yourself.
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Okay, well you see, I was really good friends with this one guy. We go to different schools and only see each other occasionally. For a while we were boyfriend/girlfriend, but not offically. We would hold hands and then, one night he just held me, in that way. Then, I didn't see him for a while, and I have recently just seen him. I asked him if he still liked me, (because I knew he did( as in he did in the past)) and he said no. I don't know if I should do anything else, because I still like him, or if I just should let it be, because he initiated our "realtionship" and then he just ended it like that.
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Psht , forget him kid. If he doesn't like you, then he doesnt even deserve to be liked by you. Keep your confidence up, I bet tons of boys would want to be with you, so why settle for one who has no interest anymore?
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im sitting her bawling. heres the story, ok well my friend (matt) was talking to my friend (susie) and they were both talking to me too, ok well susie ims me and shes like matt just said im pretty lol. then i say to matt you think susies pretty and it was all like a joke and everything but susie got mad b.c i told him and all this stuff, so i apoligize 43 times (literally) and she dosnet even talk to me i know it might seem like it is my fault but u have to kno my friend, she stabs me in the back alot and this one little thing didnt even matter i think she just wanted to get mad or something so im like begging for her 4giveness and ive never even like been mad at her or showed me being mad b.c i value my "friends" and i dont like confrontantions...well eventually she forgave me but acted like it was a privilagge or something but now i just feel so small and used like i should have stood up for myslelf, i dont really have a ? i guess i just need some guidance or soemthing
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You should keep this situation as a reminder in the back of your head. Girls are cruel, nobody can ever change that. If she was backstabbing you before, then don't even worry about it, she isn't worth being friends with anyways. You`re probably an awesome person, and you should have high expectations of who can get close to you and who cant. If someone screws you over one time, what makes you think they wont do it again? Seriously this girl just sounds insecure, and that isn't your fault and she shouldn't bring it upon you.
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ok my boobs arent likke porn star boobs and i get kind of weird about it if a guy wants to touch them or suck them..do guys care? also when they go to finger a girl do they care if there is hair there? (link)
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HEY I GOT AN IDEA!
How about you try spending more time on schoolwork, friends, and family and things that MATTER, other than standing in front of a mirror analyzing your boobs, and thinking about guys sucking them. Maybe you should do something successfull instead of sitting thinking if a boy likes shaved vaginas or not. Its your body.
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i met this guy at a summer camp last summer & we went out for like 6 months [it was long distance, so we only got to see eachother like 3 times but we always called eachother & stuff] and now we're going back to camp again to see eachother [we broke up a while ago] and i have a new boyfriend, but what i'm scared of is how much i've changed. i've gained some weight [i had an eating disorder] & my style compleatly changed... some people even call me goth, but i'm not. & i'm really nervous because i don't think he's going to want to be around me because of how much i've changed. could anyone help me please? i don't know what to do when i first see him [i want to hug him but i dont know if he'd be cool with it :-\], or how i should act around him... ? thanks a bunch
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Look at it this way, If he doesn't like you, he never deserved you. If you think you`re beautiful, then you should look for someone who feels the same way because you don't deserve anything less. If he feels a connection with you, he`ll be stuck on you for what's inside, not out. If he doesn't like you because of your outside appearance, then he is shallow, and needs to learn what relationships are really about.
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what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people . (link)
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Lol, why are you even paying attention to her? SHE HAS NO LIFE! . I would feel bad for her if i was you, I mean, you`re life must be pretty interesting if she can't get her nose out of it.
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there is this girl and everyone hates her but shes sooooooooooooo anoying and SUCH a poser, i just wanna kick the shit out of her sometimes, what the hell do i do, anything non-violent plz (link)
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Hmm. Sorry hun, but in this situation You`re the low one. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A POSER! People are just trying to find themselves, and labels arent even real. So how can you be a poser...when there is nothing you can try to be? Think about it. Stop judging her, you`re the one with the problem if you can't accept her for the way she is. Obviously she`s happy with herself, so why bring her down? Pay attention to your own life, seriously.
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okay wtf theres these 2 boys tyler an kyle and they started this myspace group cal fuck up geordans shit club n it upset me me . i dont even know why and like alot people joined t n where making fun of me wtf do they do that? i mean do they even care i dont get it .. :( (link)
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Wow, people are really low. But seriously, ignore it. I mean, do you really think they`re going to let this last long? If they waste their time on crap like that, then they must have no life. I know its hard being harassed in High School , Cause when certain people hate you, It`s like you feel the whole world is against you, but really..they`re the shallow ones. Don't even sweat it. Why should you care what people think of you when you won't even know them after highschool? Plus, if people treat you like that, then don't even waste your time.
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