|
im sitting her bawling. heres the story, ok well my friend (matt) was talking to my friend (susie) and they were both talking to me too, ok well susie ims me and shes like matt just said im pretty lol. then i say to matt you think susies pretty and it was all like a joke and everything but susie got mad b.c i told him and all this stuff, so i apoligize 43 times (literally) and she dosnet even talk to me i know it might seem like it is my fault but u have to kno my friend, she stabs me in the back alot and this one little thing didnt even matter i think she just wanted to get mad or something so im like begging for her 4giveness and ive never even like been mad at her or showed me being mad b.c i value my "friends" and i dont like confrontantions...well eventually she forgave me but acted like it was a privilagge or something but now i just feel so small and used like i should have stood up for myslelf, i dont really have a ? i guess i just need some guidance or soemthing
thank you
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
well if i were you then i would drop her i know it will be hard but if she is like that then i would.
good luck
rkgurl13
]
You should keep this situation as a reminder in the back of your head. Girls are cruel, nobody can ever change that. If she was backstabbing you before, then don't even worry about it, she isn't worth being friends with anyways. You`re probably an awesome person, and you should have high expectations of who can get close to you and who cant. If someone screws you over one time, what makes you think they wont do it again? Seriously this girl just sounds insecure, and that isn't your fault and she shouldn't bring it upon you.
]
heres my two cents - i had a friend EXACTLY like this, i had known her since i was 7 years old, and im now 16. she used to pick fights like that all the time up until last year. i SNAPPED. we didnt talk for a good 8 months-ish. it was that bad. she lives next door to me so it was even worse. then we started talking a olittle bit. the standard "how are things?" "oh cool" and like little stuff, we're okay now. shes grown, ive grown - we hang out and stuff, ill tell you we arent as clsoe as we used to be, but i think our friendship s alot better now. talk to her - stand up for yourself. this girl needs to quit being a bitch and realize that friends like you arent a dime a dozen.
]
you seem to be a really good friend if you begged for forgiveness over something she shouldn't have taken so seriously. And dont be so hard on yourself about something so meaningless. I can't imagine how much she would wig out on a bigger issue so i think you drop her she seems undeserving.
]
Look, I have this friend named Brittany. We are pretty close and stuff and I tell her all my secrets n shyt. But I can honestly say that I've caught her talk so much crap about me behind my back that I just know that there is no use in our friendship if thats how she feels. I have this 3 strike thing. After my friends have hurt me 3 times I know it is not acceptable and I realize they arent true friends. In your case, you shouldnt have to apologize that many times. If I were you Id tell her how you feel and say that you are a damn good friend and dont deserve to be walked over like that. Just talk to her. It will help.
xo Abby
]
well tell your friend that it shouldn't be a 'privlidge' to be forgiven by her! i mean, you should be happy she forgave you (over something SOOO small!) but it is definitely NOT a privlidge! if she were your TRUE friend she probably wouldn't have made such a big deal out of it. and PLUS, she never said you couldn't tell him! good luck!
]
Let me tell you now girl, she is not your friend if she thinks it's some kind of privilage to be forgiven by her! Who does she think she is anyways? Ditch her. She isn't worth wasting your time on, espesially if she gets mad at you for every little thing.
]
More Questions: |