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friend or lover?
ohkay i have been friends with this guy for a longg time like since i was in 3rd grade. (im in 7th now) i was in love with him ni 3rd 4th and 5th grade and we went out (lol) but then we broke up. after that i never had feelings for him but we were just really good bestfriends. now it is summer 05 and we hang out constantly (as friends) but im having feelings for him and i dont know what to do.. please help i rate 5 all the time!
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Okay, so this is what you do...you tell him your feelings, (just get it out there and see how it goes) and then see what he says. I know it's hard but at least you got it out there and there's no feelings to hide. He should accept you for you, and if he doesn't appreciate your feelings then he's not a best friend.
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well i would say to ask him how he feels about you but if he says he likes you than go for it cuz i mean if you guys are still friends after you broke up then maybe he feels the same way. if you dont want to talk to him yourself maybe you can have one of your friends who talks to him too talk to him for you...id say talk to him and if he says he doesnt like you than maybe you guys can starts hangout less until you are ready to just be friends. sorry if i wasnt much help. email me if you have anyother questions(even if its not about this) x3crazii4youxo@sbcglobal.net
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Do you have any idea whether or not he feels the same? Might be worth it to have a talk with him and find out. Its been a couple of years he may have feelings for you now too. :)
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You went out, and you broke up. Why go back unless you know you will be together forever, (otherwise there is no point in dating, right?)My advice would be not to go back. It may make the guy feel uncomfortable since now you are friends, and you went out before. Unless you know things will work out, i wouldn't advise you to go back.
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You need to tell him how you feel; you must get this off of youR chest. And ya neveR know.. he may be feeling the same exact way. But you'll neveR know until you ASK him what's in his heaRt. You can ASSUME alllllllllll you want, but you'll neveR KNOW until the woRds aRe coming STRAIGHT fRom him, you see??
I wish you the best of luck. Go get 'em, TigeR!! You can do this!! :D
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tell him you still have feelings for him dont hold back if you want something go for it, but dont push him in anyway
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