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i've changed...?
i met this guy at a summer camp last summer & we went out for like 6 months [it was long distance, so we only got to see eachother like 3 times but we always called eachother & stuff] and now we're going back to camp again to see eachother [we broke up a while ago] and i have a new boyfriend, but what i'm scared of is how much i've changed. i've gained some weight [i had an eating disorder] & my style compleatly changed... some people even call me goth, but i'm not. & i'm really nervous because i don't think he's going to want to be around me because of how much i've changed. could anyone help me please? i don't know what to do when i first see him [i want to hug him but i dont know if he'd be cool with it :-\], or how i should act around him... ? thanks a bunch
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Look at it this way, If he doesn't like you, he never deserved you. If you think you`re beautiful, then you should look for someone who feels the same way because you don't deserve anything less. If he feels a connection with you, he`ll be stuck on you for what's inside, not out. If he doesn't like you because of your outside appearance, then he is shallow, and needs to learn what relationships are really about.
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act your self usualy if they liked you once they will like you again i mean iv changed alot and i still cant get rid of one guy but anyway if he likes you awsome but dont chase what wont chase you look at yourself if you like what you see dont change if you dont be who you want to be not what you want him to like you for being look if he likes you great but if not then let it go maybe there will be some one else there at camp this summer so ...
good luck hop i helped
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it shouldnt matter what you look like..he should wonna be around you for what you act like if he went out w/ you for 6 months earlier! just have fun at camp nd if he likes you great..nd if he doesnt sux for him!
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You just act like you always have around him. If your appearance is the only thing he is seeing then you don't want him anyway. Since he knows you he probably won't care much what you're wearing. Outside appearances may have changed, but, I'll bet your haven't changed that much on the inside. Hug if if you want to. :)
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I dont think that you should have to change your appearance and attitude just to impress one guy. If ya'll once went out then you should be able to talk to him and explain whats going on with you. He should be able to understand you and not back away. And if he does then you shouldnt be wasting your time with him. You're at camp fine someone else. Good Luck.
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you should just wait for him to come up to you./ i mean girl who cares what he thinks you got a man who loves you for the new you. obvisouly you dont need him and you broke up for a reason. so i say if your that worried what he'll think wait for him to say something (who knos maybe he changed too) and if he think something screw him cuz you got your own man at home that loves you
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