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what should i do?
ok..if this is the second time i wrote this sry. it says i didnt ask a question and i need some advice. well i am 14 years old and there is this guy. we have been talking for about a month and a half now. he tells me he loves me and we almost had sex. everyone always asks me if we go out, i never know what to tell them so then i just asked him what were we?..were we just talkin or do we go out?..and he said we are just talking. i mean i like u but i want to talk to other girls.
should i keep talkin to him to see if things get better. or shut him outta my life? i just dont wanna get hurt. yah kno?
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I would keep talkin to him if you really like him .. but if you would ever go out with him he could cheat on you if he wants to always talk to other grls when hes [ talkinq ] to you !! i'm really sorry that i dont kno what else to tell you but i hope that i helped some !!
kaitlyn jO <3
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dont let him outta your life! he just doesnt wonna have a girlfriend..nd i can understand that..becuase sometimes its nice to be single just so you can see what different kinds of people are out there! nd you have to respect that..but have fun w/ him nd who knows..mabie not going out w/ him but still doing stuff w/ him will help you find someone knew!!!
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This is an awesome quote that you should consider.... Never make someone your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. It's not worth it to just be his hook up girl while he's talking to other girls. Most of the time guys don't change no matter how much you want them to either. You deserve better and should find someone who will focus only on YOU. Hope I helped.
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shut him out of your life... men are dogs.... outdoor dogs, ew let him find another poor bitch... haha get it bitch, female dog? lol wow that was a good... k it was stupid but you should totally dump him its like a 'friends with benefits' thing, hate to break it to ya but he's just using you. be careful good luck
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Well, you're not going out and you almost had sex? I would say he needs to go out wiht you if he wants to do that. He can still "talk to other girlls" but if he really wants you that bad, he should ask you out, and if he declines. Get him out of your life. Or shoot him, which ever works easier.
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He doesn't like to be tied down, yet you almost had sex? Let me tell you girl, shut him out! All he wants is to be friends with benifits, and it seems like your not the only one. Trust me, you WOULD get hurt if u continued to go with this guy.
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If this guy defines "just talkin" as "I love you and wanna have sex with you" then I wouldn't pursue any kind of relationship with him other than friendship (unless you want a purely sex-based relationship) if I were you. And if he keeps pushing to do more than you're comfortable doing with a guy like that, then tell him you don't want to see him anymore.
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ok..heres the deal. this boy is only using you. like you said yall almost had sex so obviously he just wants to bang a girl. and he is gonna keep on doing this because he thinks that you are to dumb to realize it. believe me i went thro the same thing. i thought that maybe he would realize he wanted a relationship..but no. he just wanted someone he could go to when he was horny.lol
so my advice to you is show him your not as dumb as he thinks and find a guy that really likes you as much as u like him
*much love*
holli
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well you cant really change love. anddd iunno but it kinda sounds like he might using you for sex. im sorry but the clues just kinda jump out at me so the next time he trys to get somewhere with you id say something like "i thought we were just talking" and see what he saids or next time he gos :i love you" say like "so we are going out?" .. just try and find the scoop cause he kinda sounds like a fake
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