Question Posted Saturday September 24 2005, 6:58 pm
My Best Friend ( Katie ) just met this other girl. I totally don`t mind her hangin out with other people, but this girl does drugs and things like that. Katie is startign to hang out with Lauren more and more cause they both like the same "punk" music and they love doing goth-like things ( i dont like lables but thats just how they put it ) I`m more of the preppy, country music, shopping, french manicure type girl. Is it time for me and Katie to move on since were different? Or should I stay and watch her get herself into trouble and fight to keep her.
AskAlexa answered Sunday September 25 2005, 7:13 pm: try to hang out more with people that have more similarities with you. dont just drop Katie and stop being her friend. still talk to her be there for her but if you dont think you should be friends just "slowly drift apart" i hope helped. [ AskAlexa's advice column | Ask AskAlexa A Question ]
emster812 answered Saturday September 24 2005, 10:03 pm: Talk to your friend. Tell her you care about her and you don't want to see her get hurt- ever. Tell her you will always be there for here no matter what and that you feel you are drifting apart. What did you do before that kept you so close together? Was it shopping- going skateboarding...? Ask her if she can hang out and you guys can do whatever it was.
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ItzMzManda answered Saturday September 24 2005, 9:24 pm: Dont give up on your friend she just needs some space and time. Although you guys are different its good because what so good about being with someone thats just like you. It gets boring not that I'm saying your boring, but your friend just wants to meet more people. You gotta respect who your friend wants to be friends with, but dont dislike like them because of what they do. Just be there for your friend and try meeting more people so you wont feel lonely.
LadyGoodman answered Saturday September 24 2005, 8:47 pm: Give her her space, but at the same time still be there for her if she needs you. She's going through a silly phase right now, much like most teenagers do at some point. She'll grow out of it eventually. [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
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