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Things to do with my b/f


Question Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 1:44 pm

14/f.
Whenever my boyfriend comes over, we usually aren't allowed in the house (my parents are strict), and we usually end up hanging out at the park, but there's not much to do.. we can't drive anywhere yet, and my parents don't trust us with much.. It usually gets boring. What can I do to liven things up and make things less boring?


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flirtacious answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 12:32 am:
be really spontanious and do what u feal like doin at that moment!
*n and d

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XxTxX answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 4:54 pm:
..Hang out outside..Try going to the movies..The mall and to your friends house..If you care about your boyfriend you can have fun with him doing anything.Hope i helped`

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SevenLeggedDuck answered Sunday September 25 2005, 3:29 pm:
Grow older...


...just kidding. I don't know, you both are still pretty young. Your parents also have every right not to allow a 14 year old girl and her boyfriend in a house together. You should just enjoy the time you spend with him, and respect what your parents tell you. Gaining their respect will get you more provledges later on, and you wont end up with these problems.

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angelfire2708 answered Sunday September 25 2005, 3:24 pm:
You are only 14 years old. Someday youll realize that 14 is too young to have a steady bf.
Theres really not much you can do, other than listen to them. Theyre only watching out for you, so things between you 2 dont get too serious.
Whats weird is, youre not allowed to have him in youre house, but your allowed to hang out with him anywhere else? Hows that being strict? At least they could keep an eye on you if you were in the house!
You could go for walks, shoot bball, biking, invite other friends to join you.
*Boring is being by yourself*. The more the merrier!!

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Uniq_The_Geek answered Sunday September 25 2005, 3:16 pm:
you can go out for a movie, go to the mall, eat out, or even hang out with both frends of each side.theres many things you can do you just have to be creative....hope i helped and good uck with this...


flirty<<:)

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dhrutts answered Sunday September 25 2005, 2:49 pm:
Hi there,

Problems with parents can be difficult to resolve, and right now your parents' attitude seems unreasonable to you. To get a better understanding of how to improve things it might be best to try seeing things from their point of view, no matter how much you disagree. You might want to consider how to prove to them you're an adult who is able to take responsibility for her life, including the company you keep.

Just telling them this might not work. In every sense you need to show you've matured into an individual they can trust to live her own life. If you try listening to things from their point of view then they in return might give you a chance to discuss the issues both calmly and sensibly.

Hopefully, the more you involve them in your life the easier you'll find it to gain the trust, and the space, that you deserve.

Goodluck

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