So there is this guy that I like, and I want to tell him I like him tomorrow. Problem is that I don't know how I should. Should I write a letter or tell him in person? What do you guys think is best? Also, I'm kinda shy, so how can I get over my shyness? 5's for helpful advice.
XxTxX answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 8:21 pm: ..Well the best way to tell him is to his face..He wont even think about it if its in a letter.Prolly just through it out..If you are shy to say straight out i like you..Just flirt with him a lot and he will get the picture..Maybe he will even flirt back..Hope i helped` [ XxTxX's advice column | Ask XxTxX A Question ]
fabulous11 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 8:14 pm: well first off i think you sould atleast become some kind of friends with him..Then it wont be so weird. Juat start to talk to him more and be a little flirty so then he will maybe get the idea that you like him so it wont be a total shock when you tell him. Then when you do want to tell him i would say the in person is the best way to do it but a note would be good too...
emster812 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:51 pm: Guys find it OK if you get a friend to ask them if you LIKE them just not if they'll go out with you. Get a friend to ask him if he likes you more than a friend.
That way he won't see you get crushed and they won't REALLY know if you like them or not if they say no to liking you. And if they dom like you: GO FOR IT!!!
good luck always!!!
Ta- ems [ emster812's advice column | Ask emster812 A Question ]
Staci_3494 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:50 pm: I think you should write a letter , thats what i would do! Explain everything to him! Make sure it the right time though! Get out more to help from your shyness! Hope it helps!
AzBaBy92 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:45 pm: i think you should write it and have a friends give it to him, and tomorrow, be as cute as can be! no slutty, cute....like, twirl your hair around ur finger, wear some pink lip gloss, you know...the usual flirty kinda thing..who knows, mabye he's liked you and he'll ask you out! [ AzBaBy92's advice column | Ask AzBaBy92 A Question ]
goodguy132 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:35 pm: write him a letter i went out with my new-gf when she wrote me a note tellign em she liked me and asked me out... to get over your shyness maybeyou should try.. practicing doing it if ur gonna do it in person just practice on a doll or something if your gonna do it on a note just hand note to doll and pretend make him say i do too, yes, id love to, etc.. hope i helped =) [ goodguy132's advice column | Ask goodguy132 A Question ]
mystical_breeze answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:34 pm: Become friends with him first. Then, write him a note or ask for his phone number and call him on the phone. It will help you from seeing his face, and making you feel nervous because of seeing his facial expression. If you're really comfortable around him, just tell him in person. Do not ask a friend to do it for you, I've seen it done too much (somehow it'll turn into something you didn't say if someone else overhears).
To get over your shyness, just tell yourself, "He's just a person, except a boy. He feels the same way I do, and everyone is shy sometimes," Remember-- there is no need to be nervous. It's not like you're running for President, you have nothing to worry about. If he doesn't have feelings for you, he'll just tell you. Everyone is rejected sometimes, and that's how you get through love and relationships. There will be ups and downs, but you'll get through it. [ mystical_breeze's advice column | Ask mystical_breeze A Question ]
TexasChick1104 answered Tuesday October 11 2005, 7:31 pm: First off...DON'T DO IT IN A NOTE. DON'T HAVE SOMEONE ELSE DO IT. DO IT IN PERSON!!! its the only way for several reasons i won't go into. if you are shy, you need to just keep repeating to yourself that you will do it. And look him in the eyes and say. It may seem impossible but when you are in the moment it will feel great. [ TexasChick1104's advice column | Ask TexasChick1104 A Question ]
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