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Abuse...??
OK well im a 13/f and when I was little and still now if like i do somthing "bad"..or i get my dad mad...he'll like hit me...and like i dont know if thats really considered abuse..well see this all came up because my friend jessica was tellin us how she stayed out late and her dad got really mad and she called her mom and was like i think dads gunna hit me cuz hes really mad but if he lays a hand on me ill call the cops...so that just got me thinkin to myself...is what my dad does considered abuse or just a way of him "punishing" me. And he doesnt just like "spank" me he usually uses a hard stick and hits me a few times and ive gotten a couple of bruises
plz answer
thanks
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How could you not see this? This is total ABUSE! This is bad...very bad. Call either your neightbor, the cops, or a friend. Please talk to me later and tell me what happens! Hope the bruises go away, too!
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Uh, ask somewhere other than a site run by overreactive teenagers before you call 911.
Just a suggestion.
Like, ask an expert. Or someone who isn't in highschool, at least.
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YES! That is abuse, I would think you would know that. It's not okay and you need to tell someone. Counslers at school may be able to help. So TELL SOMEONE, dont let it get worse.
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omfg, get out of your house now and call the cops! my friend has the same problem but she refuses to take action, u have to! this is serious, this is not right and he shouldnt touch you in any way!
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A smack in the back of the head-- Okay
Hits a few times and causes bruises-- Bad
It sounds like abuse. If he hits you more then once and causes bruises, this is abuse and shouldn't go on. Tell the police or a trusted adult.
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Hey chickiee
this soudns kinda serious... if you have no on to tell. teachers are always available to talk guidance counselors anyone bu tyou have to tell someone. my dad hits me sometimes too but not liek so i get bruises hes just gdoes it cuz im a cheerleader and hes like you have to be tough so he jokes around but in your case it sounds kind aserious so yes i would definetly take this serious and tell someone.
xoxo
catieeroseee
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I believe I answered your question before... But I'll answer again.
Yes, what your father is doing IS abuse. If he uses any object, stick, bat, paddle, hand, leg, fist, etc. in a violent manner towards you as what he would consider "disipline", it is illegal and he can be arrested for it.
Especially that it's leaving marks on your body, it's even worse. You should talk to your mother about it, because this IS illegal in EVERY state. Next time he does it, you should notify the autorities, what he's doing isn't right and should pay the price for abuse towards a minor.
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Oh my God! This is abuse! Do you have any marks or bruises? If you do, go report it! If you don't have any proof of your dad's abusivness then nothing will be done about it and you will keep getting hurt.
Good Luck! =]
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