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you love someone.. they dont love you back
ok, well i really care about someone and have strong feelings for them. I feel like I don't want anyone in the world but him. We dont really talk much, alls i can say to him is "hi" and he'll say "hi" back. He knows i like him but he doesnt like me. I really want to talk to him, but i'm scared mostly of what he'll say back. what should i do?
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Well just talk to him as a friend. I liked this guy in 6th grade.. he had no chance of liking me but I wrote a few notes and then we started talking a lot. And one day he asked me out so we went out. Got in a fight. Then now we are such gooodddd friends. Just try.. and if he ends up hating you.. it's his prob. Cause dude... He's not a good guy.
Sam.
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Just try talking to him casualy, like you would to one of you friends. Find something you two have in common and chat about that. Then after awhile when you know him better and he knows you, either you guys will become friends, you'll realize he's not the person you thought he was, or maybe he'll have the same feelings you have for him.
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Don't be scared of what he'll say back, but you do need to work up some courage first. When you have that courage, go up to him and just tell him how you feel or call him and tell him if that's easier for you. Or just find out what he's interested in and talk about that (even if you have to do some research)
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Wow do I know what you're feeling. I like this kid a lot. He's really hot, and I've been friends with him for a long time now. I hook up with a lot of other guys but everytime I see him I just melt. It's like no other guy matters. It's love hunn, and that's whats giving you nerves. It's like you want to say "Look I love you and you are the only boy in this world thats right for me!" but all you can manage is a 'hello'. I'm going through that right now with this boy that i like. Just work up the courage to have a friendly convo with him bc he might jus grow to like your personality and then actually like you. Don't be intimidated.
Goodluck!
Sincerely,
Abby <3
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hey this happends to me most of the time what i do is i invite him over like watch a movie or just chill and talk to him!!! Act nice to him and dont like hit he i know that is a sign for flirting but it dont work just play it ko0l!!!
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Ok well I know that if someone likes me I won't like them because I (like most people) want to work for it and just don't want someone to be there who likes them...soo my suggestion is don't try to stop liking him just don't talk about him and don't make it look like you like him because then he may like you and if he asks why you don't like him just say, "Well you don't like me so why waste my time" yep it always works trust me
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..Well this is a situation everyone goes through in there life..So i can relate to you execpt I liked a girl..(ima guy)..Ok..Well..First you just need to start converstation with him..Dont wait for him to start somethin..Talk to him about stuff and just complaiment him..And just become friends with him..See how things go from there..This might take a little bit of time though..But it is well worth it..But it thinks done really work, than im sorry to say but you should try to move on..I no its hard but you would have to at least try..Hope i helped..If you have anythin to say hit up the inbox`
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Just talk to him! Try to initiate a friendship. WHo knows where that will lead?
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omg i was just in that exact situation this year! What you gotta do is just be bold and go up to him and be like hey whatsyp and just start talking..He'll realize youre outgoing and talkative and probably stop in the halls to talk to you too :) Hope this helps..good luck
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Well if he doesn't like you and you want to talk to him, what do you have to lose? Think about it, most guys aren't completely insensitive, you both could start conversation. What's the worst thing he could say if he's not an insensitive jerk? It's hard to cut off good conversation. Heck, maybe if you flirt a little you could actually get him to like you, cuz most guys don't like girls cuz either they don't know them, or they are mean to each other. You don't seem mean, so go talk to him. Best of luck!
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I think you should just go ahead and talk to him about it if you want to. You're already expecting the worse but even if its true he doesn't like you, hearing it may help you move on. :)
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just talk to him and be your self with a little shimmer, he will want to talk to you more and more the more you talk to him, juss talk about things you both like
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