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okay i always seem to be the friend never THE girl. i mean its always this way. i'm really funny and i make jokes alot, but i cant seem to stop. i am also really sarcastic some of the time. i'm the girl who is playing football with the guys at parties or shooting hoops or playing some video game with them or seeing who can chug their drink the fastest..i just have more fun hanging out with guys and i can talk to them more than i can girls because there isnt as much *drama* with them. i really want to be THE GIRL for this kid named matt. hes a great soccer player, amazing football player, smart, funny, hott, helpful. just all around what i want, and i want to know how i can change some of the ways i am so he'll like me, or atleast notice i am a girl and i've got the potentional to be a girlfriend. hes never made out with anyone and neither have i but i know i want to be the first person he ever makes out with! can anyone and everyone PLEASE help me?! thanks so much. 5's help!
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wow.im the exact same way with guys. i mean it took me forever to get a boyfriend and even when i did it was hard cause i was always hanging out with the other guys who are my friends. now i went into the same situation with my boyfriend and what i did was told my boyfriend that i have guy friends and not to be jealous cause i only like him. what to do to get him? let him know you're interested. joke around with him and pay more attention to him then you do to the others..
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Well if you insist on changing your self then start doing stuff for him and act more like a girlfriend even though you arent dating still do all the manly stuff if you want.But most of all be who you are and hope he notices what a great GIRL you are..Dont go changing your self for boys! its bad for you and ur self esteem...trust me i have done it!
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-Amber Nicole-
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wow. that is like exactlly my life, only a different name for the guy. but yeah! i have fun doing all of that stuff too. & its kind of hard for me to say but ive never even had a boyfriend. most of my friends are guys & stuff. and like i really want them to notice me as a girl and not a friend. but sometimes they just dont. like, what i would try to do is just flirt with them. dont change. & even though you really really like him, just make sure you pick the guy that loves you, for you.
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hey!
all you really need is to flirt! it works everytime! but just dont change yourself in anyway whatever you do just dont because no guy is worth it.
good luck
<3 MiSs SaRa**
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I totally relate to you. Always the friend but never the girfriend. The answer is FLIRT. For a tomboy, this is the ultamit signal you like him. Be yourself around other guys, then flirt a little with this guy, then be a tomboy, then ignore him, then flirt again. When you ignore him I don't mean totally ignore his presence, I mean say a couple words, but not a full blown conversation, and don't be too focused, seem a little detached. It works unless he really isnt into you.
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First of all it's never a good idea to change who you are for anyone. You'll begin to resent the fact that you have to hide your real self and others, in this case Matt, will see that you're just playing a part. It seems to me like you two have a lot in common. Get his attention by asking him if he wants to play a little one-on-one or ask him for tips on the sports he plays. Guys tend to stick with girls that they have common interests with and that they can relate to. Good luck with Matt.
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i think he's gonna like you just the way you are.. just act like you would around anyother guy.. just try to tone down on like burping or farting (if you do that in front of guys) because some guys think it's unattractive .. i agree with you.. girls are very dramaful... and it's okay if you hang out with the guys... because then you know like what they want.. so you could put that into play when your hanging out with matt you know? but of course i think you will have to make the first move to show him that your intrested in talking with him.. or getting to know him.. maybe ask him to go to the park and shoot some hoops or soemthign you know? well if you need ANYTHING just let me no :-) hope i helped
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Well can i say you sound like a really cool girl to start with. And i dont want to give you advice on how to cchange yourself; and not because im nasty. But because if the guy really likes you and is as nice as you say, he wont want you to change. Or should i say expect you 2! The best thing to do is talk to the guy and be yourself. The only thing anyone can ever ask of you is 4 u 2 b yourself and thats it. Jus talk to him and maybe even flirt a little and tell him that you like him. He may even like you MORE because you're into some of the same things he likes.
Im sorry that i didnt fully answer youre question but seriously; dont change who you are. I bet youre great the way you are right now so why change? Idf people cant accept you for the person you are and expect you to change then theyre not worh it because they dont care about you!
Hope i helped,
Anthony
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