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please help....
16/f
Okay guys, this might take me a while to explain but i really need some good advice from you's so im trusting ya's !!
Alright.. me and the person ive been talking to for the past 5 months became very intimate. His past girlfriend he dated was for 18 months, and after they broke up she became a slut. I'm not trying to be mean or anything but she's done over 10 guys and shes only 17. Now.. im afraid that when we had sex, he's still thinking about her because i hear shes crazy in bed. And heres the thing, i have weird nipples.. yeah i know it sounds retarted or whatever, but i have a big chest .. im a 36 C, and i weigh 132lbs.. and i dont like have a nipple.. noone knows this buy you's and im not really planning on telling that many other people.. When you press on it, it becomes hard and you can see the nipple, but thats about it.. WHat should i do about this ? i dont want to seee a doctor about it because not even my parents know.. and what do you think i could do to make him think im good in bed. please help me
ps.. this may not seem like a big situation,.. but me and my best friend are the "most popular" girls in our grade.. and the guys we are with, are also.. plus they are best friends.. i dont want my rep ruined
thanks for taking the time =) Thanks.
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5 Months is not long enough in my opinion but if he loves you enough as he SHOULD FOR HAVING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE..then i think that he shouldn't/Won't care
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I'm going to be upfront with you on this. You aren't ready to sex with this guy for these reasons:
1: You aren't comfortable enough to let him know your body imperfections.
2: You aren't comfortable with his past and the rumors you are hearing.
If you aren't comfortable with telling this guy just about everything about you, then sex won't be enjoyable for you. You'll be wondering what he's thinking about your body and what he's thinking of your actions and how 'good' you are. Which that shouldn't be worried about anyway.
You need to flat out let him know your discomfort with your body and his past and take the pressure off. If you let him assure you that he's not having high expectations with you, you'll feel way better. In order to truly enjoy this experience, you have to comfortable with yourself and your partner.
About the breast problem you have: I'm not exactly sure if it's something serious or it happens, but it wouldn't hurt to let someone know and go see a doctor about it. People go to doctors for worse reasons than their breasts and think of that fact if you get uncomfortable. It's only normal that you see a doctor. It's a way of taking good care of yourself.
About your reputation: If you keep caring too much of keeping your reputation, then you aren't going to have a good experience with sex or love. So, you should start caring about yourself more and stop worrying about things that don't matter such as his ex-girlfriend and your reputation.
-TheTeenGirl
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First off, we can't give you any sex tips. We would be banned if we did. There are 13 year olds on the site and its a legal issue. We don't want shut down!
There are many different kinds of nipples. I'm pretty sure you have some. If you are really worried that they look weird, talk to your mom about it. I know it would be hard to do and kind of creepy but I'm sure she would be happy to talk to you about it. Believe it or not, talking to her about those kinds of things will make you closer.
If you ever have sex with the guy...I think I can say this much, do it in the dark if it bothers you. But, you know what? If you don't trust him enough to see them or tell him about it, you probably shouldn't have sex with him.
That's just a little grandma opinion I had to give to you. Take it or leave it. ;)
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