Okk...I had my heart broken by a guy...that I thought cared about me ...well...he didn't. I just started liking my guy friend...well he doesn't like me...he likes my friend..I think...but she's not the right girl for him...because...she doesn't really care about guys feelings...she dates them for 2 to 3 days...or maybe if the guy is lucky a week! Ok...like...I am single and I really would like a boyfriend.. um..I am a 7th grader...and NO one in my school likes me!! I absolutely don't know why. Ugg...I am really nice...I have a lot of friends and I don't judge anyone.I am fun and silly..lol I'am pretty... well...all my friends say i am all hte time so..and... well...I just don't understand. What I want to know is ...will I ever find anyone? Like..I am 13...but...still... a lot of people have boyfriends in my grade. What can I do, any tips on getting a nice guy?? All...I really want is a sweet caring...lol cute guy!! Gezz..and all those guys are taken at my school!! It's hard to find a sweetie pie...lol Please...anyone try to help!!
That is the LAST thing you should be worried about at that age. You need to worry about school & grades & living life.
YOU DO NOT NEED A GUY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY OR TO SURVIVE.
Every girl would really like a boyfriend, trust me, but they are not needed. You can do fine without one, and I think that's what you need right now. Just relax & be yourself. Worry about your grades. Do not worry about a guy because guys come & go.
And honestly, don't even bum yourself out. You only have a little over a year until high school & then there will be a ton of guys around who will be much cuter & nicer. Finding a nice guy is hard, but you can do it if you stay single & get to know a guy first before dating. Don't worry. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
canada2011 answered Thursday March 26 2009, 8:46 pm: Trust me you have more than enough time to find someone. Don't spend your life worrying about having a boyfriend. Because before you know it you will blink and your lifes gone and all you ahve done is worried about finding the right guy. When the right guy comes along you will know. Of course you will have boyfriends along the way that you think is him. So you have hit a dry spot it's ok. It's not that no one likes you its just that maybe guys aren't looking right now. It's ok your a 7th grader remember that. [ canada2011's advice column | Ask canada2011 A Question ]
voodoopoison answered Thursday March 26 2009, 10:13 am: *sighs*
This is almost sad. You are in 7th grade, you have more than enough time to find that special someone...love yourself, be good to yourself and when you get older (16+) a guy will come and steal your heart away and you will truly know what love is. But, the older you get, the more TRUE love you will come to know and seek for. [ voodoopoison's advice column | Ask voodoopoison A Question ]
RACHElbby answered Thursday March 26 2009, 12:19 am: Hey ; I know , that's exactly how i feel. Haha. Butt I'm more like your friend. I hate it. Lol.
Anyways ; Like you said , your only thirteen. You'll find him one day. Just dont qo out lookinq for him. Just flirt a little with the boys. Haha. Butt you qot pleeeeeenty of time to qet a boy. (:
Ha. I hope I helped. [ RACHElbby's advice column | Ask RACHElbby A Question ]
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