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cheated, forgiven and trusting
i cheated on my bf. he forgave me and it has been 5 months since the cheating. he is having a hard time trusting me but is doing his best. i dont want to rush him with it. but i do want him to let me hang out with my guy/girl friends, without worrying. i dont want him to let me go to parties and trust me because thats silly. how can i help him or make it easier.
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The truth is he may never trust you again. But thats something you lose by making the choice that you made. Some realstionships wont make it and yours may be one. If he can't trust you enought to let you live your life because you cheated then you guys need too talk and sounds liek you need to let him decide whats more important him trusting you or you living your life.
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I know exactly how he feels ive been cheated on twice by the same guy.And it is really hard to let go and trust completly again. You just have to show him that you truly care tell him EVERYTHING, dont text a lot of other guys and hang out with your guy friends as little as you can until he trusts you again. It might take a while but if you work for it hard enough eventually he will trust you again.Hope i helped =]
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I think you could help him by spending a lot more time with him and show him you really care for him i have this same problem with my BF except i cant learn to ever trust him so i dont let him go to parties and hang out with his friends either and i know its wrong every1 should be able to hang out with there friends, i dont trust him, so because he dont trust me i try and spend time with him and have him come and hang out with my friends with me so that he knows what i do and who my friends are and i try not to party and do anythng that would make him think that im doing something that he wouldnt want me to b doing and now hes trusting me a little more now and im glad so maybe this advice would help you hope it does and it it doesnt let me know so i can work on my advice more. this is my first time giving advice.
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I give him high credits for giving you another chance and trusting you [or attempting to trust you again]. It is hard to gain back the trust of someone you love and you, let's just put it out there as it is, stabbed them in the back. Yes, it has been 5 months, but this takes time. Call/text,invite him to tag along. If he says no, then text him and let him know what you and your friends are doing, or call him and say things like "I wish you were here". If you find yourself about to cheat again....here is an awesome tip...get the hell out of there. =)
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