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can she be trusted after all?
i have a new friend saly i met her 3-4 months ago and we got along a lot she tells me some of her secrets, but i havent told her any because i dont know if i could trust her yet and im waiting till i hang out with her, but to start out i told her about the some guys that are cute and yesterday, me and our new friend named ashley was walking to class and we saw the guy i think is cute and she says
saly:hey its james
me:i know
ashley:whos that?
saly:thats the guy she thinks he's cute, hes name is james
saly:haha remember what you told me about him? (i told her personal stuff about him)
me:oh haha yeah
saly:i cant tell you unless she tells you ashley
i know this is not a big deal but do you think she can be trusted after all? she told the other friend that i think the guy is cute and i know i dont like the guy or anything but good thing she didnt say the personal stuff i told saly to ashley because if she did i would not trust her after that what do you think about this? sorry if it sound immature im really cautious about those things i just think this might give me a clue if i could trust her with the secrets or not. thank you so much
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hi i'm mickey.. i think she might have some growning up to do.. maturity wise.. but honestly it sounds like sally is one of thoughs friends who you just hang out with at work or school and talk to occasionally... she doesn't sound like a true and real friend.. one who would really have your back.. but i say stick it out a little. get to know HER more before she gets to know you more.. you know what i mean? maybe she is different and you can trust her.. but i would wait a while...
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Hi, my name is Lyrissa and im 17 and have those same problems and im just as cousious because i live in a town full of fakes and back stabbers so i know how these kinda things work but it sounds to me i wouldnt trust her at all it starts out as you telling her that you think that guy is cute and you told saly that he was cute and saly told ashley, saly pry new that ashley liked him, and will probably try and get with him before you do. So saly will pry tell people everythng you say especially if its a important or very private secret so i wouldnt trust her at all people arent alwasy as they seem they may seem trustfull but there really not you have to becarful who you choose to be your friend that old saying keep your enemies close but your friends closer keep that in mind. good luck. hope my advice helps.
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Did you tell her not to tell anyone? If so, she was wrong to start blabbing about it.
I reckon you should just talk to her about it and if you ever tell her things in future, tell her to keep them to herself, even if you're both with the rest of your friends.
I wouldn't worry too much about this incident because it's nothing serious. but still be wary of things you tell her, like, never talk about anyone to her, because if she's a bit gobby, it will always get back to that person. Just be careful.
Trusting someone takes time. Don't put ALL your trust in her just yet - but don't think you can't trust her either.
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Sounds like to me she is the type of person who will say stuff, you told her, even if she didn't mean to. I would keep a good distant on what you tell her or she may accidentally let something be said and it is all around the school/college/work force...whichever you are at.
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