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A past ex :/
Hello 14 f PLEASE ANSWER SOON...its really important nd i dont have much time :/
Well tomorrow I might be seeing my ex, and this ex made me miserable a traumatizing experience for me. Now he's always at my towns city pool every day in the summer..im going there with my cousins, my aunt and my grandmother. Every time I go, with my best friend or anyone I get so nervous and sick to my stomach because I have bad memories there. How should I face him, because I really despise this guy, he doesn't like me much..so I don't know what to do..sense my boy friend won't be with me. My friend says to show off what he's missing. hahah >.> Seriously though what should i do? please reply soon..i only have today..
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well i think that if you really dont like him and he does not like you, then you have to fight though the sickness and things and realise that he is not with you any more and he will never really be a part of your life again really,
you have as much right to be there as he does,
so just ignore him
if you like pretend he does not exist :)
and forget the past really and move on with the future :)and forget all about him pretend you never met him :)
hope this help
good luck :)
just be happy and have fun with your friends :)
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Hello, I honestly think your friends advice was right, I think you should deifnitley flaunt and show off what he is missing... a guy always wants what he cant have:)..I think thatis as far as you should go though.If you have such negative feelings toward him and he emotionally hurt you I dont think you should give him the time of day. I suggest no eye contact and there is no need to approach or talk to him because there is not much to say. He is in the past and should stay there, talking to him will only bring up those bad memories even more and upset you. If he comes up to you,which he may not since you metnioned that he doesnt like you much. But if he does you should be very short with him and not engage in conversation with him, because really the only thing you probably want to hear from him is an apology for hurting you as to gain some sort of closure. However, if there is no apology, there is no need to talk to him, just try to pretend like he is not there and enjoy your family, he is no longer apart of your life and it should stay that way. You dont want someone who brings negativity to your life, it will only bring you down. So try to forget about him and enjoy your day at the pool. Hope this helped, if you have any specific questions you can send me a private message if you would like, goodluck with everything!..Everything will turn out fine, no worries :)
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