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masterbating hurts?
im a 14 female andi rub my clitoris and orgasm etc. but i tried to finger myself and it HURT! it felt like it was burning when i stuck my finger in there. Why does it hurt and how do i make it feel good? i want to know what an inside orgasm feels like. does it feel better than rubbing your clit.? and i wont stick anything else up in there cause its not sanitary. and is there any way to get a better orgasm? i've tried an electric toothbrush but it didnt do it for me :/ i ran water on it and that felt good but what else? thanks for all the answers :)
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Hello, there could be a number of reasons it hurt when you stuck your finger up your vagina. It could have been that your fingers werent thouroughly cleaned, your vagina could have not been lubricated enough, or your finger nails could have accidently scratched the inside of your vagina. thorugrougly cleaning your hands prevents any dirt or bacteria from geeting inside your vagina, even a very small piece id debris on your finger could cause a burning sensation in your vagina because its foreign to your body. Obviousliy long nails can stratch yout vagina so filing the nail of the finger you are going to use to masterbate is very important. Also in regards to an unlubricated vagina, putting a dry finger in your vagina just causes friction which can be very painful. So make sure you take those things into account before you try masterbating again. When you masterbate, you want to place your finger slowly in your vagina and stay in one place, while your finger is in a particular place you want to move it as if you were telling someone to come here, moving just the tip of your finger back and forth and keeping your finger in a steady place. The goal is to find your gspot- you will know due to the amount of pleasure you feel when you put slight pressure on it. If you continuously put pressure on this spot then you will eventually have a vaginal orgasm, keep in mind that it may take awhile to happen and there is no way of telling if a vaginal orgasm will feel better to you than a clitoral orgasm because everyones body is different. What feels great to one person may not feel so great to another. In relation to trying to compare a clitoral orgasm from a vaginal orgasm, both give an intense amount of pleasure, its hard to say what it may feel like for you but it feels just as great as a clitoral orgams but its honestly just something you would have to experience yourself, and trust me you will know when it happens :)..Hope this helped, if you have any further questions or want tips on other masterbation techniques I would be happy to help, just send me a private message and ill get back to you as soon as I can..goodluck!
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We're not gynecologists and can't really tell you why you feel a burning sensation or any level of pain from this activity. It may have to do with the hymen and may not.
I would recommend you log onto www.scarleteen.com It's a site staffed with experts on human sexuality aimed at teens. They might know if you give them a more graphic analysis of the pain and how it happens to you as they have people with medical experience there.
As far as tips for this activity we can't and won't provide them due to laws about minors.
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maybe it hurt because you busted your hymen meaning that you popped your own cherry or you need more lubrication down there. if u want to feel better than maybe try it with your panties on or when you finger yourself be more slower and more gentle let it build up
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