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16/f
Today's my birthday and my friends wanted to take me to the movies. After the movies we went shopping for my friends birthday party tomorrow. I was with a girl and a guy shopping. When my friend went into the dressing room to change, I was alone with my guy friend. I was kidding around and told him that he should just leave because he was complaining about how long girl's take to change. And before I knew it, he walked out of the store. After I got home, he was talking to me on facebook. He told me that the reason why he left was because in his country saying what I said was very disrespectful. I feel terrible. How do I apologize after he told me that? (link)
you should tell him that here that would have been taken as a joke but that you didnt mean to disrespect him or insult his country and your really sorry


I'm doing this play with a group of people in a couple of weeks. I have the lead female role and this guy and I are suppose to kiss on stage. The storyline is similar to Romeo and Juliet so I can't just skip the kiss but I really don't want to kiss this guy. He's a creep and I was wondering if there is a way to decently fake a kiss on stage? I talked to some of the people and they said if I can figure out a way to make a fake kiss look realistic then I can do that instead but I've never had to do this before so I don't know where to start.

Can you do a fake kiss on stage and make it look realistic? How? (link)
you kiss there cheek next to there lips to make it look real


14/f
I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. I invited him to a party on behalf of my team. He couldnt come (he tried, but got lost and had to have his mom come find him) but he invited me to hang out the next day one on one. I said he should bring some friends and we could go to the beach. He seemed really excited, but the next day he said he couldn't go because he had to work. We haven't talked since then; he's been off work for two hours. What should I do? Forget about him, text him, wait for him? (link)
maybe he really had something to do but if you call or text he might think your desperate you should wait a day or two and THEN see what happened


when i see a hot guy my mouth waters. why is this? is it normal? lol. (link)
no not really normal. maybe you are extremely horny or its a fetish maybe aroused sexually.


im a 14 female andi rub my clitoris and orgasm etc. but i tried to finger myself and it HURT! it felt like it was burning when i stuck my finger in there. Why does it hurt and how do i make it feel good? i want to know what an inside orgasm feels like. does it feel better than rubbing your clit.? and i wont stick anything else up in there cause its not sanitary. and is there any way to get a better orgasm? i've tried an electric toothbrush but it didnt do it for me :/ i ran water on it and that felt good but what else? thanks for all the answers :) (link)
maybe it hurt because you busted your hymen meaning that you popped your own cherry or you need more lubrication down there. if u want to feel better than maybe try it with your panties on or when you finger yourself be more slower and more gentle let it build up


me and my friend always talk a lot, we're really good friends, we may argue but only playfully, she would always call me and talk to me a lot, but lately she doesnt call me and she doesnt really talk to me that much anymore and when i joke around with her like we always do,she somewhat plays along with me but after a while she just gets mad at me, she is acting kind of distant around me, and im not doing anything about this at all, i dont know why but im scared to tell her that why she hasnt been acting the way shes been acting and im just letting things happenened and its making me sad but i dont have the guts to tell her, why am i not doing anything and why is she acting that way? am i overreacting? (link)
maybe theres something going on with her home life or its other friends pulling you 2 apart you need to pull her to the side and let her know that your here for her and if theres anything she wants to talk about then tell her your there too listen


I'm white, he's black. Is it wrong? My mom does NOT approve at all. She actually doesn't know I am dating him because of her beliefs. I don't tell many people because I'm scared of what they will say or do. I'm scared that they will disown me. There are so many racists out there, including most of the teachers in my school. When I'm with him in school, there is always fuss. Black teachers yell at us, as well as white teachers. That's just when we are holding hands. It gets really discouraging for me, and it makes me sad. I don't see him for his color, I see him for his personality. And yes, I do love him. There are some bad things about him that not many people would approve of, but he treats me good. He doesn't beat me (like a lot of white people think black people do to their girlfriends) he doesn't force sex on me or any kind of sexual act, he is just as good as any regular guy. What I am scared of, though, is that he is in a gang. He gets arrested a lot and tells me he's always fighting. He knows how I feel about his fighting and jail time. He said he wishes he didn't join the gang because he can't get out now. If I tell my mom that, she will send me off to some kind of all white boarding school. He says he loves me, too. Sometimes I want to break up with him because he is bad, but he is a really sweet, caring guy and that's what keeps me hanging on. I really don't want to break up with him. Its like, the people around me are PRESSURING me to end the relationship. Advice? (link)
if you love him then FUCK what others say this is your life you have the RIGHT to do what you want to do nobody else can stop you your mom is so shallow that she would let the color of the guy you love determine if hes right for you.well she can suck it up and GET OVER IT who is she to say who you love. just remember that. shit im black and going out with a mexican girl and i'll be damned if someone tells me i cant


helppp!!! okay my dad is the most strict parent in te world and won't let me even talk to guys as friends. well he took my phone for no reason while I was sitting in my room and started reading my messages. I really dint think he liked them and he isn't giving it back to me until I go back to my moms in a week. but I'm sure that some of my guy friends are going to text my phone. and my dad WILL take thins the wrong way. I have no idea what to do I'm so scared. and my mom and dad are divorced so my mom can't do anything. help me please please please I'm freaking out!!! oh I'm 14 an I'm a girl. and it's not like I'm saying or doing anything bad he just is very overprotective and he's not one of the nicer parents you'll meet. (link)
I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL. this is what you need to do: either hide your phone OR tell him that in a couple of years he wont have control over you anymore and he needs to start letting you do things on your own and you need your own space. he will feel so bad that he wont bother you anymore


My mate and I are somewhat new {abou six monhs}. But we now reside together where I pay all the bills, cook 90% of the meals in the house, do home repair projects etc. My mate does some things for me which are not frequent but nonetheless appreciated. However, alhough I specifically explained to my mate at time of uniting my expectations sexually, she debates or otherwise find reason discuss what things I like or don't like sexually.

When I initially told her of my sexual expectations there was no objection of complaint of any kind. Now every time I bring the subject up, she attempts o change the subject or gets upset. This puts in my mind that she does not feel as she claims and I believe causes me to not perform well in terms of durability, a thing NEVER before a problem in my life. Am I being unreasonable to insist on complete nonrestrictive sexual activity, in light of fact that she was informed in the beginning of relationship? It seems we are BECOMING less sexually compatible. What do you think? I ask only to show her your reply since she does not view my view as credible it seems to me. I am a 49 year old male. (link)
if you find that shes not pulling her own in this relationship then you need to sit her down and say this: a relationship is a mutually bonding between two people that means you should be putting in the same you get out of the relationship and if she isnt then she isnt meant to be


13/f

Ok so I'm not being cocky or anything, but I'm a pretty attractive girl. Whenever I walk down the halls at my school I see people just starring at me. And it's really wierd. Mainly bc I wonder what thy are looking at. If I have a boogie or if my eyeliner ran. I don't know what they are looking at. But I have been asked out 4 times. The first time I said yes and we were bf/gf for about a week bc he hurt my best friend so I broke up with him. But then it was my best guy frend and u said no bc if we break up it'll be awkward. Then the 3rd time it was a dude I met at bush gardens (in tampa Florida). I knew him for about 30minutes maybe an hour. Then the 4th time it was this kid that goes to my school that added me on facebook. He said I looked pretty and asked me out. But I have alot of friends That rent that attractive. that have boyfriends that are cute. And then there ia this one sluty ugly ass girl that has had so many boyfriends. So I wanna know if it's my personality or what. I just don't understand. I hope someone an help. Thx in advance.
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it might be your personality or might be your looks. you need a guy that wants you for u not how you look but you also have to be responsible and know which one is which.


where could i buy this gucci keychain purse thing:

kid cudi has it

http://str8nyc.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/kidcudisxsw.jpg

i want that exact one (link)
you could go to amazon or the actual gucci site and order it online


Hello, my friend is 21 years old and has constant "high school" drama in her life. She is constantly getting into love triangles. She is constantly mopey. She is also a parent and although she is a good mother when she is with her child, i don't think she spends enough time with him because she is always going out. Should i confront my friend about her immaturity? If so how should i?
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you should be careful confronting her about it cause she might take it the wrong way. you should very calmly tell her that she has a child to raise and if she doesnt want it to grow up like that then she should spend more time with him/her


13/f

To me death is soo scary. When I was little I would stay up half the night crying bc a thought of death entered my mind. I know nobody knows what happens when we die bc nobody has been through it to tell anybody else. But I have a few theories.

1.) that when we die we just get reincarnated into someone else. That there is a heaven but only for people who truely deserve to go. Bad people go to hell. REALLY good people go to heavn and the people in the middle get reincarnated.

2.) that when we die thee is ABSOLUTELY no heaven and you just poof and your gone.

So can anyone help me. I hate having to wake up in the middle of the night bc I'm crying of watll happen. Does anyone support my theories. Please help. Thx in advance. (link)
basically theres is really no way to tell you if your right or wrong because everyone has there own beliefs but theres a old saying: when its your time its your time. you need to learn to accept that fact and never be scared of it


I'm 21 years old and have had quite a few sexual partners. My first few were because of love, and the rest, were not and were flings. Now, after a year of not having a boyfriend or having sex, I'm finally seeing someone and he's great. I'm starting to really like him and he feels the same. The problem is, I keep pushing off sex because I'm scared it will ruin our relationship and I know it sounds crazy, but it's hard having sex with someone I really like! The only way I can describe it is because there is so much emotion and feeling involved, I worry about if I'll be good, what he'll think of me, etc. I feel like it's time and I really want to, but for some reason, I'm feeling like a virgin. How can I get rid of these feelings? I never feel this way about sex or guys, for that matter. (link)
well if its his first time then you have nothing to worry about cause he wont know what to expect! if your worried about not being good enough just ask him the types of things he likes and go from there


Why do all the weird not very attractive girls get boyfriends? I'm in high school and it seems like all the guys like are these annoying girls. They are not even pretty. I just don't understand it. I feel like I'd I have to act differently to get a guy. Seriously, why is this? (link)
were just stupid like that. most likely cause there not thinking maturely were not asking ourselves important questions like is this girl really my type. is she fit to raise my kids. but trust me you just keep being you dont stoop to there level. your time will come when they grow up an find out what they want in a women.


okay so my boyfriend tells me he loves me allll the time, and i really really like him, but i dont think/know if i love him back. today he asked if i love him, and i said im just not ready to say the words or anything but what if im never ready ? its not like id break up with him over it cause hes absolutely amazing i jusst dont think i know what love is, and your not supposed to say it unless you know. is it possible to have someone be everything to you but not love them? with my first boyfriend i knew i loved him. but i think a lot of that was just the fact that having a real close relationship was new to me. now that i have experienced that, i feel like the excitement of a first love isnt there but i stilll want to spend every moment with my boyfriend (and i do). i just dont know exactly what im asking. i guess i just need some insight. thanks (link)
saying the L word can be tough maybe your scared of getting your heart broken? if your a little scared to say it its okay just at least try to SHOW it so he knows you both are on the same page.


FEMALE.
okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly a year. I really do love him and everything and he wants to be with me forever. We plan to get a flat together after he finishes college and it sounds like such a great future.
Exept sometimes, I feel as if i dont like him as much and that i want to be with other people. Its just that, i lost my virginity to him so i feel like if i am with him forever, I will never get to sleep with another person or have different sexual experiences. I dont want to dump him though because i love him more than anything in the world and i know it would tear us apart if i did. He crys sometimes because he thinks i will dump him but other times i feel he doesnt apreciate me :S please please please help (link)
if you love him so much then it shouldnt matter if u want different sexual experiences then you should tell him things you want him to do in bed


ok so im 14 girl and in the small town i live there aren't many teenage guys. i go to the movies, bowling, everywhere but i can't seem to find any? i dont like anyone at school and am not joined in clubs that have guys in them. None of my friends know guys so what can i do to meet some?! please help and when i meet one wat do i say?! ahhh thnx :) (link)
you can find one online near you on a teen dating site and make sure hes not just another perve and just be your self


so there was one question on here that somebody asked. she said "he "came" in my stomach but not vagina" and they said you couldn't get pregnant from that?! i am so confused!i know in sex the penis goes into the vagina and i think into your stomach right? so arent the "rules" like if the sperm goes in the vagina you get pregnant, but as you travel up the vagina you get to the stomach right? i hope this makes sense lol thnx :)

-14/f (link)
if he comes on top of your stomach then no your safe but if he comes inside of you then theres a possibility you will get pregnant.


how to convert a song into a video
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copy the url of the song from youtube then go to anjo and paste it in the box below the box there will be something that says mp3 click it and pick MOV or Avi press enter and follow on screen instructions




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