Member Since: June 18, 2010
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Me 13/f
him 13/m
I have posted ALOT of questions on here so if you feel like reading those, just go to my page or column or watever. Anyways here's the story.
I am IN LOVE with this guy. He is my best guy friend. We live three houses away. So I hang out with him somtimes. I've even been inside his house. We always walk home together. Lately on our walks home he has been "touching" me. It's mainly my butt but he's started touching my boobs. I always move away and call him a pervert. Bt he asks me if i want him to stop. And I just don't say anything. Bc if I tell him to stop then he'll think I don't like him when I do. So a few days ago we were testing and I asked him who his crush was and he said this other girl that used to be my best friend. We arnt enemies we just barely talk anymore. But she has a boyfriend. Then when he asked me who I like I told hi
that I liked him. Then he said he had to go. Then the next day he asked me if I wanted to go over to his house and have sex. So I said that I wish I could but I was at my grandmas. (we were just messin around. I am waaay to young for sex.) and he told me to prove that I wanted to and I asked how. And he told me to send him a pic of me naked or come over. So then I told him no and we had a huge convince abot that. Then he just stopped textin me. And now everytime we text, he barely says anything. So my question is.......what's going on. Does he like me or not. (link)
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Well, sorry to say but it seems like he isn't interested in you for anything but your body, and don't let him use you. If I were you, I'd continue to text him casually (every once in a while)because you're friends, and if he gets flirty, and you still like him, than go from there. But I wouldn't let him lead you on knowing he likes someone else, that's just going to lead to hurt.
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okay .. so iv talked about this kid that 3 years older than me has a gf and stuff ... but how can i make him like me ? (link)
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Sorry to say, but people don't usually tend to like people three years younger than them until they are in the later years of highschool or out of highschool when age isnt as huge as it is when you're younger. I'd say to try and find someone closer to your age :)
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My boyfriend and I had sex the other night, and he came on his hand.. and then 5 or 10 mins later he fingerd me..is there a chance that the cum got inside of me ? :/// (link)
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As stated in the other post, yes there is a chance, but it is relatively small. If I were you, I would go to your pharmacy now (no prescription needed) and get the morning after pill, Plan B. If you are pregant it'll de-fertilize the egg. I'm not certain how long it works after the actual action.. but if it's under 48 hours ago, I'd check it out, or look online first. Hope all goes well!
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Ok..well do they really mean something? I had a dream that I left my boy friend for my ex..
I just recently was put threw the stress of him still loving me and wanting to be with me, but I chose to stay with my bf. :) I love my boy friend, and I don't want to leave him..but why would i dream this? My boy friend says its because I do have feeling for him, and now he's joking that i'll leave him. When I don't want to..
My boyfriend also had a dream about his friend Aly..and they were hugging and she was about to say that she loves him, but than comes a helocopter? haha Well, shes a lesbian so its not like they dated but he said he likes her,shes a really good friend of his..he says he probably dreamed of her because he misses hanging out with her..and that the hugging was from when one of alys gfs broke up with her and my bf was comforting her..so yeah? Do i have anything to worry about..for either of these? (link)
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I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. I personally think that dreams are just a blurry reflection of your thoughts. They are in a way what you're thinking of (person or place) but not exact how you're thinking of it. Don't worry about it :) and stay with your boyfriend!
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There are so many flaws in the logic of my parents. They've let me travel halfway around the world and live with complete strangers for a week in a different country. However, upon asking them if I could go get ice cream down the street they told me it was too dangerous for a young girl to go along.
...what?
I'm seventeen years old. I have a driver's license. In a year, I will be going to college. However, I cannot go buy a milkshake. I just tried explaining to my mom why this is madness, but she freaked out and went on a tangent about how hard she works in life. Completely off topic, but whatever baby. I don't believe I'm asking too much. Some of my friends parents allow them to gallivant at concerts in big cities until the wee hours of the morning. I am not asking this. They told me it would be safe to get ice cream with a friend, but not on my own. Obviously, this is not about the ice cream. How can I ever gain independence if I can't drive two minutes from my house on my own? Why is it my parents have let me gone to Europe twice and will allow me to go to Africa next year, but won't let me go to the local Dairy Queen? (link)
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Oh man, that's shitty. If I were you, I'd give them all of the bad possibilities: such as you always out - never calling home, getting into stuff they dont want you to be into, failing classes, etc. Tell them that you need your independence, and that kids who are held back only rebel.
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me and my best friend want to get tattoos to always remember eachother and i know me and her will always be friends. weve been best friends for 9 years but we have no idea what tattoo to get, i was thinking something like in pairs maybe like she get a spiderman logo and i get a batman logo since that was our favirite shows back in the day. but we need some more ideas. we got in a fatal car accident and were both put in hospital so we were going to do one to remember that. but i have no idea someone pleeasee helppppp! (link)
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Hmm, that's a hard one... but I think it'd be really awesome if you had it so that it was a smaller tattoo and have it be something that you needed both halves to come together. This is just an idea but... Have half of this saying like.. going up behind the ear and the other half on the other person's ear going down behind the ear so that when you stand together you read: You are the sun, in which my world revolves around.
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My hair's in really bad condition and I want to get it cut into a wavy bob (hair's naturally wavy), shoulder-length or a bit shorter but not too near the jaw.
Thing is, I don't know what'll suit me. Face is square shaped, hair is naturally wavy, quite course and dry, currently has long layers.
Any ideas on what would suit me? (link)
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Okay, so you say you have course, dry hair that has long layers... well, I say go with something fresh and new! A wavy bob style could be nice, or maybe an incline (ask your stylist or google it) which is ideal for people who want to straighen their hair, but it could look cute curly. But, to maybe make it less course and dry either use some mousse or get some curl cream from either your hair dresser or pharmacy. Just my advice is something new, fresh, shorter (if your hair is longer) and definately keep the waves! So many girls would kill for waves, so put them to your advantage with the right product, Redken (professional brand) or Herbal Essences (pharmacy) will do nicely.
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Okay so my 16 year old boyfriend dumped me in a text message four days after he guilted me into giving him head. (I'm fourteen). Yeah I know it was stupid and trust me, I regret it, and I'm not going to try and explain how I felt because no one can really understand it...
But anyway. So now we're broken up and I'm hearing some really awful things he's said about me (while we were dating and presently). And I really don't understand why he's doing this... Because I've done nothing to hurt him. I haven't screamed or yelled or made a scene or tried to get people to hate him or turn his friends against him (even though his best friend, we'll call him Pete, took my side after the break up, I never asked Pete to and my ex had been treating him like shit before that anyway). Well my ex and Pete are kiiind of still friends and he's been telling me all the horrible thing my ex has said. Like while we were dating my ex told his baseball team about how far we'd been and that he "had me so whipped" and that you gotta "keep your girl on a leash" and what not. The second part doesn't bother me so much as the first because my ex always promised me that stuff would stay between us... See, our schools baseball team is horrible. They act like girls exist to do what they want and they constantly pressure each other to try and get head or get sex and its disgusting, it really is. Well my ex told them all about me giving him head and the baseball team told the football team and the football team tells everyone else and now goodness... everyones talking about it because my reputation before this was "innocent good girl" and thats trashed now...
I talked to my ex and he's like "no one is judging you, we dated for six months" yet I'm having guys come up to me and ask if I will "put out for them too" or "if I knew you were down for this stuff I would of gone after you a long time ago" and its disgusting and I hate it!!! I know it's true but those kind of things are supposed to stay between you and your boyfriend and he promised me they would. I talked to him. He said he'd tell people he was lying but we know that's not gonna happen. And guess what else I found out??
He's been telling people we've had sex too. Now, that, is NOT true. And he's saying the most disgusting things like "yeah I was on top and I was scared I was gonna break her cause she's so tiny. But she was great, she let me do whatever I want. I could of put it up the ass if I'd wanted to" and I just don't even know what to do... I hate having everyone talk about me like this... I regret giving him a blow job SO MUCH. He just... at the time he made me feel so horrible for not giving him one. And i knew it was wrong but the things he said made sense to me at the time... I just, I don't know... I can't explain it. I know it's not an excuse. But he would say things like "it's been six months, don't you trust me enough to do this?" or, "you don't even want to try to make me happy" and I started believing all of this stuff... I just let him walk all over me and I started thinking it was okay. I just want my reputation back. I don't want to be known for this...
I know I don't deserve it. And I especially don't deserve the sex rumor. I just don't know what to do... My ex denies saying anything to anyone when I try to talk about it with him but I know he's lying. He says he'll tell people that the rumors aren't true but I can't trust him to do that. I just don't know what to do... :( Help.
Please, I'm begging you, don't judge me for doing what I did... If you knew how I felt at the time... Just so low and useless... I don't know. Please just tell me how I can handle this.
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Rumors spread, and as bad as you think it is now.. it's not that bad, and it WILL get better. Just stick with your friends, the people you trust and you'll get through it. In a month or so nobody will even remember it happened. My advice to you is to (unless you guys are still close) try to cut off or cut back on interactions (talking) with your ex, or atleast about your sisuation. The more you talk about it the more fresh it will be in his mind, so the less talk the less rumors and the quicker this problem goes away.
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Ok, I've been playing volleyball for my school and on club for about 2 years now. I've always had extremely skinny wrists, where the bone kind of pops out and, unfortunately for my wrists, I play back row. It hurts SO bad when I dig the ball on serve receive and defense. Is there such thing as like pads for your wrists? Or just anything that kind of protects my skinny wrists from hard blows... I always have bruises on my wrists and they hurt so bad. Also, are the "wrist pads", if there are any, legal in school or club volleyball? Thank you so much! (link)
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I'm not sure if there are wrist pads or not that are legal to actually wear... I am a certified referee and we're not to allow any jewelery (because it could cause an injury) or anything that could excel someones playing ability. So, in my league you wouldn't be allowed to wear the wrist guards/bands/pads that have anything hard on them (plastic) because the ball could bounce off of it, and well, that would just be unfair, haha. You might possibly be allowed wrist pads that are simply foam or material, but I'm not sure. Also, if your wrist are weak.. then you can tape them for support :)
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