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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now, and whenever we go out he always introduces me to people as his friend, not his girlfriend.
Should i be concerned? What does this mean?
I've never met any of his close friends, or any of his family.
- 21, F (link)
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You should be concerned and confront him and ask why. If he can't tell the world your his girlfriend he doesn't deserve you. And you don't deserve a guy who can't love you and show it
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i am from india gender female age 25. actually i am in love with a guy of other cast. their parents accepted me but my parents didnt.after knowing this my parents asked me to resign the job. i resigned it.i am house arrested now.my parents are so good and soft but because of cast feeling they r not accepting.that guy tried to convince my brother but my brother didnt accept. that guy asked me to come out and lets get married but i cant go out like that leaving my parents. they get hurt.now i cant get settled in career and cant marry him what to do. i am standing on two boats.i am a coward girl.dont dare to do anything.dont even dare to die.dont even dare to go with him.if i go like that if my parents die then that curse will come to me. (link)
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I don't know how it is in India culture but your 25 you show be able to make your own decisons. I understand you don't want to hurt your parent and have that on your mind,but are you living your life for them or you why don't you talk to your parents,and explain. They raised you but it's for you to make the choices now and live your life and they should support you no matter what and behind you through everything. Good luck=)
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18/f
lately my motivation to do anything has gone down. i have alot of confidence in myself and i think i'm a great person, but i don't pick the best friends.
basically my friends are all about themselves. they don't give a shit about me, they say they do, but they don't because i know when someone actually cares about me because they SHOW me. i always have to ask people to hangout and they're never there for me when i need someone to talk to and they are just all about themselves and i'm tired of it.
i usually have a boyfriend. i was dating a guy for 2 years in high school then we broke up and shortly after i was with another guy for like 5 more months(i liked them both, i didn't date just to date). so most of my high school years i was wish a boyfriend and he made me happy. now i honestly have no one to lean on. i have to do everything on my own. i use my looks to get boyfriends so i have someone to help me get through but there is literally no guys in my school :/ idk what to do anymore i have a long summer ahead of me.. (link)
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I understand what you mean. Give your life to God no man nor friend could love you more I did and I fine in sistuations where I should be sad I'm very happy. Not only that if you stick to yourself and be yourself people will start coming to you to be your friend. If you need a friend to talk to I'll talk to you you can email me a nayokosky@gmail.com if you like. Keep you head up and stay happy because your never alone.=)
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okay so im really close with my friend kylie (shes les/emo)
kylie cutt her self, and just a couple of days ago cut really bad whilst we were in school and came rushing to me for help. so instead of going to science i spent last period with her in the bathroom trying to understand why she did it and if she was ok. ( i know its wrong to ditch class so please no lectures on that please)
so we started talking and she admitted she had a thing for me. and kept hugging me.
i addimitted i had feelings for a female friend of mine (amy, we have kissed befor) even though im still not sure if im bi. and know shes REALLY close with me, and now everyone thinks im les. i have been thinking about it lately and im think im straight . what should i do i dont want people thinking im les. (link)
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Well, dear you might not like my answer and I know you care for your friend as a friend but people will keep thinking your bi as long as you hang out with her or they see her flirting with you. You can tell them all that you don't like girls like that at all and eventually it'll die down. Try to find God read the bible and go to a real church some people speak about God but really are fake and twisting the words around so be careful. Only really look for God if you want to not because I tell you. If you chose to become a christian no one will think your gay or bi because there is no such thing as a christian being gay or bi says so in romans chapter 2 and in deut. If you have trouble reading it get a new king james version and get a dictionary.Good luck to you in your choice.=)
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16/f
ever since i could remember when i was little, ive always feared tidal waves. ive had reoccuring dreams about them, and i at least think of tidal waves 3 times a day. on top of that, i just worry about my family gettin hurt. i have a wonderful mom and a step-dad, and a beautiful baby girl. im ALWAYS worried about them dying, which scares me. whenever i take the baby somewhere with a hard corner around, i imagine her hitting her head on it and i die inside everytime i imagine it. i imagine my mom getting in a car wreck on the way home from work. i imagine my step dad sitting on the porch and a tidal wave coming and smacking him against the concrete. i always had these feelings, but during/after i was pregnant i got way worse. is this normal or should i seek professional help?
thank you. xoxo (link)
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I used to think like that but after I gave my life to God it stopped. It's not good to be like that because by living in fear you can't really live at all. I think you should seek out and try to find God and get therapy. I wish you all the best. =)
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well i met this girl that i really like yes im bi sexiual we talked and she ask did i want to have a threesome with her and her ex i said yea we did and now me and her ex have been talking alone with out her and we ahve really come to care for one another and he wants to take her out the picture completly what should i do? (link)
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Honestly if he did that to her when a third person comes in for yall what makes you think he won't do the same thing to you. Besides your betraying the other girl
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Ok there are these 2 guys. One is my ex's best friend that I'm not so close with, but I'm getting closer with now, and another is like my best friend and I've known him for a few years, we've been like brother/sister close.
Not too long ago I realized how much I like that guy that I've known for so long. I like him a lott and I'm quite comfortable around him. He lives closer to me than the other guy but I don't hang out with him outside of school. He really makes me feel incredible though.
The other guy I'm talking about lives a little farther but I sneak him over my house every few nights. We are dating right now and we've already had sex a few times. He's been on home detention for a while and he's going to jdc(juvenile detention center) this friday because he failed his drug test. He keeps violating his home detention but is promising he's getting off for me. To get off he'd have to pass his drug test. Marijuana is still in his system. Even when he gets off he's going to get right back into smoking and partying all the time though, I asked him.
Sorry this is long but I've got a little heartache problem.
It's summer break right now and the guy on home detention is the one I'm going to be hanging out with.. and I honestly think I need more time to get comfortable with him.. I don't feel on his level.
I really wish I could see the other guy.. he makes me really happy... He's half puerto rican/half dominican and I'm this little white guy. I'm pretty positive he likes me. I've been told and he acts like it.
What would you do? See if things get better with the guy I'm going out with or wait for school to come along to get closer to the other guy?
I've also done similar things the guy I'm dating has done... and the other guy is so innocent to that stuff. I don't really know what to think. (link)
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I think you should go out with the other guy and leave your boyfriend. So what he made a promise,don't beleive it. Because if he really loved you he wouldn't be asking you to sneak out to see him He would find everyway to see you that doesn't envole trouble for any one plus he wouldn't just say he will stop he would go get help to show you that he cares for you and wants to do better. Go with the other guy and be happy like you deserve. =) No one deserves that type of drama over a guy. So go get you man girl before it's to late
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for the past 2 years, ive been liking this guy in my class. once he found out i liked him he stopped talking to me completely for the rest of the year (which was like 8 months) and that hurt me pretty bad. Before this we were cool with each other but then he heard that i liked him, he treated me like i had a sick disease. i also had my friend pretend to do a fake interview with him so we can learn his interests. he found out about that which also contributed to him treating me like some kind of stranger. I even apologized for that and he still acted like he hated me. He hardly talked to me that whole year. So anyway a couple of days ago, i saw him and he actually talked to me as I was walking in the opposite direction. He only said hi let me remind you that this is the first time he tried to start a conversation with me in a long time. He pretty much shouted it as if he really wanted my attention. Is this a sign that he's over what happened last year and actually wants to be friends or something? thanks for the answers
p.s please don't criticize me for blowing something as simple as "hi" out of proportion (link)
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Well I say the only one who really knows is him no one can read his mind. why don't you go try to talk to him and see what happens.
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Okay so my 16 year old boyfriend dumped me in a text message four days after he guilted me into giving him head. (I'm fourteen). Yeah I know it was stupid and trust me, I regret it, and I'm not going to try and explain how I felt because no one can really understand it...
But anyway. So now we're broken up and I'm hearing some really awful things he's said about me (while we were dating and presently). And I really don't understand why he's doing this... Because I've done nothing to hurt him. I haven't screamed or yelled or made a scene or tried to get people to hate him or turn his friends against him (even though his best friend, we'll call him Pete, took my side after the break up, I never asked Pete to and my ex had been treating him like shit before that anyway). Well my ex and Pete are kiiind of still friends and he's been telling me all the horrible thing my ex has said. Like while we were dating my ex told his baseball team about how far we'd been and that he "had me so whipped" and that you gotta "keep your girl on a leash" and what not. The second part doesn't bother me so much as the first because my ex always promised me that stuff would stay between us... See, our schools baseball team is horrible. They act like girls exist to do what they want and they constantly pressure each other to try and get head or get sex and its disgusting, it really is. Well my ex told them all about me giving him head and the baseball team told the football team and the football team tells everyone else and now goodness... everyones talking about it because my reputation before this was "innocent good girl" and thats trashed now...
I talked to my ex and he's like "no one is judging you, we dated for six months" yet I'm having guys come up to me and ask if I will "put out for them too" or "if I knew you were down for this stuff I would of gone after you a long time ago" and its disgusting and I hate it!!! I know it's true but those kind of things are supposed to stay between you and your boyfriend and he promised me they would. I talked to him. He said he'd tell people he was lying but we know that's not gonna happen. And guess what else I found out??
He's been telling people we've had sex too. Now, that, is NOT true. And he's saying the most disgusting things like "yeah I was on top and I was scared I was gonna break her cause she's so tiny. But she was great, she let me do whatever I want. I could of put it up the ass if I'd wanted to" and I just don't even know what to do... I hate having everyone talk about me like this... I regret giving him a blow job SO MUCH. He just... at the time he made me feel so horrible for not giving him one. And i knew it was wrong but the things he said made sense to me at the time... I just, I don't know... I can't explain it. I know it's not an excuse. But he would say things like "it's been six months, don't you trust me enough to do this?" or, "you don't even want to try to make me happy" and I started believing all of this stuff... I just let him walk all over me and I started thinking it was okay. I just want my reputation back. I don't want to be known for this...
I know I don't deserve it. And I especially don't deserve the sex rumor. I just don't know what to do... My ex denies saying anything to anyone when I try to talk about it with him but I know he's lying. He says he'll tell people that the rumors aren't true but I can't trust him to do that. I just don't know what to do... :( Help.
Please, I'm begging you, don't judge me for doing what I did... If you knew how I felt at the time... Just so low and useless... I don't know. Please just tell me how I can handle this.
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It's okay you and and you learn so you know better next time. I had a similar sistuation like yours,but after I gave my life to God everything was better I felt whole and at peace even though some didn't like me. To your question stand up for your self and say what you didn't do,but keep in mind there will be idiots who believe it becasue they just like mess, so just pray and ask God for strength. Also it's times like things where you have to know when to speak and not(cause some people just want to bully you and make you shame) Plus no matter what smile and keep you head up around them all. Because You and your real friend know what really happened. and trust no sin goes un punished God know what happened to.
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Why do all the weird not very attractive girls get boyfriends? I'm in high school and it seems like all the guys like are these annoying girls. They are not even pretty. I just don't understand it. I feel like I'd I have to act differently to get a guy. Seriously, why is this? (link)
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Do they speak out about anything and are not shy to hang out with them or ask questions if so that's your answer. why do you try to go hang out with a single guy you like get to know him and see how that works out and you don't have to be annoying just dont be shy.
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18female.
so i recently met this guy, about a month ago. the more we started hanging out, the more i fell for him. he knows i've had a ton of trouble with guys in the past and he told me he'd never give me a reason to not trust him and he would never hurt me. i met all his friends and he never once left me, he holds my hand in front of all of them, he cuddles with me, he calls me babe ..and he told me he liked me. well just now i go on his facebook and this girl asks when he's going up to his cabin and that he better be there and he says something like .."yeah i'll be up there, are you bringing any other hotties up there besides yourself haha :)" and seeing that, my heart literally dropped. i was like what the hell?? i don't want to bring it up to him, because that would just be creepy and kind of like i'm obsessed with him or something you know? but i'm honestly hurt, although we're not officially together, i didn't think he was talking to other girls like that..
what should i do? should i say something to him? should i leave it alone? ugh i don't know, advice, anything please :( (link)
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Well that's kind of weird since your not together. You should ask him about it. because when you dating someone you must ask to fine out or you'll most likley end up playing yourself. Plus why are you holding hands with him and cuddling if you dont know if he's yours, ask him where he wants to go in the realtionship and don't flirt with any guy like that unless you know for sho that he's yours cause he could be playing you if you don't check it out.
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im 14/f
i go to a co-ed school (boys and girls) and im the kind of girl who talks to everyone . im used to being surronded by girls but lately i find myself surrounded by guys with girls no were in site. I dont mind im mates with them all and its less bitchy. One of the guys in the group is my ex (who still likes me) another ex (trying to make people jealous by hugging me and holding my hands) a nerd ( who i like although i would never date him) and the loud mouther of the school (who i had a crush on)so as u can guess its akward for ME. i still kind of like them all and my mates keep saying "stop flirting with them all, your leading them all on" but im not im just being me! people r now going around the school saying im a slut and hook up with any guy that asks which is not true. how can i stop this? (link)
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You need to not let just guy come up to you and hug you or hold your hand you have to stand up for yourself or people will look at things like that and call you something your not. Plus you if you still plan on being friends with thoses guys you need to give them boundaries of do's and don'ts. and tell them you not interested in them that way. Plus the more you hang around them the more possible chance your giving them the opportunity to like you more tell them you need your space and look for other people to hang out with. You have to tell people what there hearing isn't true and show it in your actions.
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my ex and i are mates, but were REALLY close we always hug and flirt and stuff although neither have feelings for each other anymore.
i dont mind being close with him as he is like my best guy mate, but it makes other guys nevous to come up to me or even ask me out . What should i do??? is it wrong to be close with your ex? (im not the jealous type and am more than supportive if he gets a gf, i now when to back off and let space be given) is this wrong? (link)
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It okay to be friends with your ex and speak every once and a while but to flirt and hug like you still have feeling for each other is sending the wrong signals to other guys. How can you expect to be able to move on and other guys to be comfortable with you if it still seems like your interested or dating that guy(ex).
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