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guy are falling for me
im 14/f
i go to a co-ed school (boys and girls) and im the kind of girl who talks to everyone . im used to being surronded by girls but lately i find myself surrounded by guys with girls no were in site. I dont mind im mates with them all and its less bitchy. One of the guys in the group is my ex (who still likes me) another ex (trying to make people jealous by hugging me and holding my hands) a nerd ( who i like although i would never date him) and the loud mouther of the school (who i had a crush on)so as u can guess its akward for ME. i still kind of like them all and my mates keep saying "stop flirting with them all, your leading them all on" but im not im just being me! people r now going around the school saying im a slut and hook up with any guy that asks which is not true. how can i stop this?
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You need to not let just guy come up to you and hug you or hold your hand you have to stand up for yourself or people will look at things like that and call you something your not. Plus you if you still plan on being friends with thoses guys you need to give them boundaries of do's and don'ts. and tell them you not interested in them that way. Plus the more you hang around them the more possible chance your giving them the opportunity to like you more tell them you need your space and look for other people to hang out with. You have to tell people what there hearing isn't true and show it in your actions.
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Hey,
Tell them to stop saying things that aren't true about you. Tell them the facts about you and let them know you aren't dating any of them. It is your life and it doesn't matter that you have a lot of guy friends at the moment. Guys make great friends. Let those that are spreading rumours know that you are just being yourself and then prove to them that you are. It does not matter what their opinions are if they are bad ones, yours is what is important. If you do want to date one of them, then go ahead. Just continue being yourself, ignore the people spreading rumours, and eventually they will die down. No one should be able to tell you what you can and cannot do. Keep being friends with the guys, it is obvious that they are being better to you anyhow. Who needs those other people that bug you. Keep being yourself, it will help you stay true to yourself and get you where you want to be <3
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