my ex and i are mates, but were REALLY close we always hug and flirt and stuff although neither have feelings for each other anymore.
i dont mind being close with him as he is like my best guy mate, but it makes other guys nevous to come up to me or even ask me out . What should i do??? is it wrong to be close with your ex? (im not the jealous type and am more than supportive if he gets a gf, i now when to back off and let space be given) is this wrong?
Laura3392 answered Friday June 18 2010, 8:52 am: dont worry about being so close to your ex it is good that you to can still be friends i know how you are feeling one of my best friends is an ex and sometimes it does feel a bit weird but if you are wanting to get a bf the problem is that you need to tell him what you are feeling and then he mite back off but if you and him are wanting to get back together then you also need to talk to him about the option, i would no my friend that is my ex is making it more awkward atm because he has got feelings for me atm and i dont feel anything for him i have told him this and he does not get it so that is making thing more awkward between us. at least you no that you two will not get back together being close to your ex is good but just tell him that you just want him to back off a little bit or tell him that you like this guy and u would love for him give you some advice about it them he will know that you are looking for a new bf i hope this helps hun xxx [ Laura3392's advice column | Ask Laura3392 A Question ]
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