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Why do all the weird girls get boyfriends?
Why do all the weird not very attractive girls get boyfriends? I'm in high school and it seems like all the guys like are these annoying girls. They are not even pretty. I just don't understand it. I feel like I'd I have to act differently to get a guy. Seriously, why is this?
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the pretty girl sometime doesn't get the guy because they think you already have someone.
Also its not always about what a person looks like its about the person that you are.
Be yourself and the right guys will notice.
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were just stupid like that. most likely cause there not thinking maturely were not asking ourselves important questions like is this girl really my type. is she fit to raise my kids. but trust me you just keep being you dont stoop to there level. your time will come when they grow up an find out what they want in a women.
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Do they speak out about anything and are not shy to hang out with them or ask questions if so that's your answer. why do you try to go hang out with a single guy you like get to know him and see how that works out and you don't have to be annoying just dont be shy.
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There's this funny thing called 'personality'. The girls who 'aren't even pretty' tend to have it in spades. I was one of those weird girls in high school (band geek, science nerd, model parliament) but I wasn't exactly lacking in male attention. In fact, because I did have to develop a real personality, I was the first of my high school friends to get engaged despite being overweight and unattractive.
Are these girls really annoying? Seriously, think about it. Is it because they don't really care about appearances? Is it because they tend to be more outspoken, more humorous? You see, to me, that's not annoying. That's being a real human being, and not a shell of a woman who thinks only of celebrities and shoes.
You want to know how to get guys? I would consider myself an expert, seeing as 90% of my friends are guys.
- Stop being so darn concerned with your appearance. Guys hate girls who come across as prissy.
- Stop looking down on people for being less attractive than you. They're probably great people, and you can't see that past their less-than-perfect exterior. That goes for guys too.
- Find guys who you get along with on a personal level. Don't date someone 'cause he's hot'. Date him because you can have a long conversation with him about something other than clothes or sports.
- How do you find these guys? Join a club. I made tons of guy friends because we had an interest in common.
- Don't shy away from dating a friend. If you're not attracted to him, leave it as friendship. If you do feel attracted to him, remember that you're friends for a reason! You like him for who he is, so go get'im!
- Don't try so hard. Seriously. Sounds like you've been hunched over in your bedroom agonizing and gritting your teeth over why these girls are successful. Stop focusing so much on other peoples' successes, and focus on your own.
- Above all, be nice. To EVERYONE. Guys won't go for you if they see you being rude to someone, then you come over to them batting your eyelashes. You come across as a serious hypocrite that way. So even if the nerd won't leave you alone, keep smiling and being nice to her, because the hottie might be watching you and judging you based on your actions.
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Maybe these guys actually like these girls for who they are and aren't being jerks. Your taste is good, stop trying to be perfect and maybe they'll start to like you to
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this is because they are being who they are, there not trying to be perfect or impress any one else.
dont change yourself for guys they see this a fake and are defentantly not attracted to it.
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